Potty chair in front of others

One of my favorite threads here. The only way to potty the little. So humiliating. IMO even more than public diaper changes.

This is a fantasy of mine, especially if it were done to me by an older man or woman. Being forced to hold my pussy lips open to show that I was going potty would be a wonderful compliment to my humiliation.

Eliza,

I would urge you to think about the fact that you are loved and cared for. Many are not, and have little or no guidance.

A friend who visits here from Zity USA, not only has to do what you suggested to demonstrate her surrender; but, after a poo - she calls to me. She is standing with spread legs, bending over the toilette, waiting for me to come clean her bottom. She loves to surrender some of her body functions to me, finding peace, tranquility, and sensuality as I take care of her personal hygene.

Is she embarrassed? Humiliated? I would have to let you ask her. But if I know Jesse Tobias, she would tell you that she is loved and cared for.

Thank you for sharing on a sensitive subject,

Ryan

Hi kids !! WHo here would like to be forced to go potty on a real potty chair in fornt of others while they watch you and make praise for being sucha big boy or girl ?

This is one of my 'naughty' fantasies.

Being given a quick acting laxative (like a Dulcolax suppository), or a (soapy) enema after my nappy is taken off, and being put on a potty in front of everyone else. But only if the others are my ABDL friends. Not in front of people who are not 😃

Then get all those compliments about what a big boy I am when the tell-tale noises start to happen. And of course afterwards, placed on the changing cushion with my legs spread / knees pulled up to get my bum wiped while everyone watches.

How about a time limit, while sternly telling you to keep you legs wipe apart, so the supervising adults: your mean babysitter and her giggling friends can see, that you are doing what a little boy is supposed to do in the potty? Cheering you, massaging your tummy, tickling it and your inner thighs to make you lose control, adjusting your pee-pee, etc. And of course loudly announcing what you did and praising you for being a good boy.

There are also embarrassing before and after rituals like asking for your potty properly announcing to everyone what you need it for, while you are barely holding it. And asking to wipe your bum after the potty. Which to your dismay would happen in a leg-up position on the changing table, followed by tickling creaming and the thorough lubrication of your little hole, often until you have an embarrassing accident in front of the awwing and giggling audience.

But most importantly even if you strain, push, and produce what your strict mom or babysitter asked you to, threatening by a spanking or a kinkier punishment like relentless tickle-torture, you'd never know if you satisfied the adult in charge. She may declare it wasn't enough or you didn't sit on the potty properly, or just need to learn a lesson, and punish you anyway.

Even if she praised you for being such a good boy, once on the changing table for butt wiping, you may find out she decided to use a soapy thermometer or a special massage with another soaped up implement, or a good old enema to make sure you pooped everything out, while using tickle to evoke the #1 urge to completely empty your bladder in front of everyone in the same humiliating diaper position.

You'd still try to please your mommy or babysitter the next time, wondering if she'd spare you the unpleasant ministration if make an extra effort. Uncertainty is an important tool to show a little one who is in control of his two most private body functions.

I would love to be put on a potty chair in front of consenting adults, particularly if strapped to one. Simon's comment about the potty chart with stickers would be almost exciting as the actual event, if it were publicly displayed.

I always use a potty chair( commode) closest to where i am going to be And yes I can be strapped to it so i dont fall out, I have a neurogenic bowel and bladder with very limited warning, I am both IC as well as Functional IC , my body doesn't give me adequate warning to maeuver my wheelchair to the toilet remove pants and de diaper to go , my aide will clean the commode, fortunately due to medications I take my bowels are pretty predictable to I generally have one medium sized bowel movement every early morning and late evening but this entire bowel routine is based on drugs , without them I mat go only 1 in 2 weeks period and even that requires plenty of straining and finger sweeps, I can change my dose and timing if I get into trouble , a larger dose taken 1 hour apart will result in semi firm stools happening about every 45 minutes but that is thiring on the clean up because they just happen without any warning , so ive got to get realy constipated with nearly nothing happening and be in pain to plan a couple days of total incontinence its bad enough when it happens on its own but to actually plan a couple of days of total no control where my aides have to completely be on there A game with cleaning and drying and barrier cream is no fun at all .

I would love that so much! I've been looking for a potty chair

I would love that so much! I've been looking for a potty chair

Go to a convalescent care, home care or surgical supply store and you can get one.

How about a time limit, while sternly telling you to keep you legs wipe apart, so the supervising adults: your mean babysitter and her giggling friends can see, that you are doing what a little boy is supposed to do in the potty? Cheering you, massaging your....

That..... Pressed quite a lot of my buttons there!

I can image this sort of thing happening as more of a means to enforce the fact that I'm nothing but a toddler/little boy to some older women. Talking down to me as though I was a little boy who needed to learn his caregivers knew what was best for him. The humiliation alone would likely break my will to fight and I'd obey their orders. Then to be diapered in front of them and treated just like a toddler. I'd be a vary obedient toddler for my caregivers.

I don't think it would be as embarrassing if it was only one woman though. I doubt it would happen in person because what older woman/women would want to do that to a younger man?

This is going to happen to me soon two off my friends are about to potty train there kids and as they have grown up with me and my baby boy side. So thay have said that if I didn’t try why should they.

We meet up 2 or 3 times a week so I know that I am going to be made to sit down on a potty by them.

Because they tell their mummy if I wet .

If I go round there straight from work I get laughed at because I am dressed up as a adult I am also going to a potty training app on my phone plus I get to use my potty at home too.

Having being forced to use a commode in front of others (your Girlfriends Parents & GF) has to be so Humiliating

yet when they give you no choice .I had a Gf for apprx 2 yrs during high school,then I worked for her Parents for another 2 years after finishing (they owned apts,various business ventures) My Gf parents were from Germany she was there only child and they were approx.in late 40's early 50's when we were 20-21yrs..

They owned a cottage way up in the Bush on a Lake with no electricity/plumbing/Bathroom (just outhouse)My GF and I were living together and I still working for them ,we were asked to come up with them for the month of July .Now My GF Mother was Very Dominant and after 3 years Her daughter was just the same .The Father said very little and did what he was told .My Gf and Mother spoke alot of German to one another at times .So my GF asked if I was willing to go for the month and I agreed fully.

When we arrived they had a propane Fridge & Stove and a generator to run to small lights to play a board game or cards for a bit . But then they showed me the Outhouse which was a good hike from the cottage .

The cottage had 2 bedrooms and our room had 2 beds in it a dbl & single . all rest was one big room with table .

Once it got dark the first night after we had played a card game my GF father went and turned the Generator off

we had 2 lanterns and about 1 hour later I asked if I could use 1 of the lanterns to take to the outhouse .Well the 3 of them look at each other and my GF's father says I guess no one told you ,once it is dark no-one leaves/uses the outhouse ,we all use the commode right there . Well I look over and right against the wall in the MIDDLE of the back 5 -10 ft from table NO Sheets covering ,but instead of a small pot there was like a big 5 gal pot under the seat . My GF's Mother says if/when you pee men have to sit down because you will splash if you stand. Beside it was a small table with toilet paper .I had to go so bad and I knew could not hold much longer,not until everyone went to bed.My GF Mothers says nothing to be embarassed we all go to the bath room ,we all use the same parts and further more your here for a month and with the Bears , cougars wolves no one is to use the outhouse at night .

I finally went for a pee sitting there so humiliated just looking and them talking to me while I am going to the toilet When I went to stand up to pull up my underwear and shorts my crotch just out for all to see was no big deal to them . Throughout the night they all went at diff times thinking nothing of it . Of course I would try so hard to go to force and have a bowel movement during the day in the outhouse BUT did not ALWAYS work that way .

Taking a shower was also fun since big drums were on the roof and we used the generator to pump water into the 2 big drums every so often and then we would have a shower out side again just a nozzle no sheets covering and there were blood suckers in lake near shore . so I used the shower . By the end of the 2nd week

I could care less when I went to the bathroom if for a piss or bowel movement using the commode at night .

Growing up my Aunt looked after young children. She had a room for this. Lino on the floor, toys and games and in the corner two pottys. There was no screening and boys and girls were taken by my Aunt or her assistant Mrs Walker to use them when needed. One day I had been naughty and was made to stay in the playroom with my Aunt after school. I really wanted to go for a pee and in the end asked my Aunt if I could go but she said she didn't want me out of her sight and to use a potty. The thought of this was terrible. I would have to lower my pants and squat on it in front of the children and Mrs Walker. In the end I could hold on no longer and I went over and tried to sit down and quickly pull down my pants and hoped no one would notice. But the boys and girls thought it funny that the big boy was using a potty and were laughing and pointing to me and Mrs Walker was looking too. I finally stood up, knowing my t-shirt was not covering me, and pulled up my underpants and shorts and went back to sit by my Aunt thoroughly humiliated with my cheeks burning and feeling like a little child not a 10 or 11 year old.

If done properly I can guarantee you this will be super rewarding for the little. Fresh out of high school several years back I went on an amazing summer vacation to New York where I visited a dome mommy several times to explore my abdl side. Towards the end of my summer I explained to her I would be leaving. That's when she gave me a sessions I'd never forget. She gave me specific instructions to eat a full breakfast and lunch but not to make a bowel movement. My heart was racing in my chest when I read her text because I knew I'd finally get to make a messy diaper. To my surprise upon arriving I was met by her and two other domme's who stripped me, bathed me and when diapering she slipped 2 suppositories in me then a but plug. I was to hold it until she said so then once given permission I was allowed to use the small pink my little pony potty sitting by the playroom door. Once she finally agreed she slowly pulled the butt plug out and I sat my petite frame down on the potty and released the flood. It burned so much and it stuck and they laughed at me and called me their potty baby. It was magical!!

That would be too Awkward for me personally. But each to their own.

Well still not potty trained so I have more people that know I am a toddler.

I now have a potty in 5 different houses

1 my home 2 in family’s 2 in friends

Yes most of them have been given to me by the children of the family

It’s quite humiliating when I’m round there and a 4 year old grabs my hand and says it is time for a potty yes the adults are laughing and just hand me a new diaper out of my bag.

Lucky they have been told that I have to use it alone with the door closed so I take my diaper off and sit on a potty most of the time it’s in the front room maybe a little bit of wee wee but the socked diaper besides the potty says it all

The children come in I grab the wet diaper in one hand and the potty in the other then we go back to the adults they say that I’m not ready to begin.

We laugh at it I clean up and dispose of the diaper

As to potty chairs, the ones made for kids are really to small and are essentially useless for adults.

For those physically capable of squatting antique china or enamel chamber pots are commonly available, but require a lot of muscle tone. On the other hand, the usual squatting position really helps one poo. Also, if you have to use a chamber pot, any audience can see absolutely every detail. Modesty is impossible.

Real, adult potty chairs, called bedside commodes, can be very useful, especially if you like powerful laxatives, suppositories, or enemas. One can place the commode at bedside, with the pail in place, ready for instant use and have no worries about messing the carpet on the way to the toilet.

A couple of user hints:

It is a good idea to place a disposable Cuux pad under the potty chair, in case of leakage, accidents, or splashes.

Also, put a couple of inches of warm water with a few drops of dish soap in the pail when you set it up.

The water will cover the poo and it'll stink a lot less and the dish soap will make the pail easier to clean when all done.

There are also products like Unicorn Gold Spray to hide smells.

There are a variety of bedside commodes available, staring at about $30 new. Many fold for storage, but the cheap ones tend to be uncomfortable.

This is a commode that I've found to be comfortable, sturdy, and well made:

https://www.platinumhealthllc.com/products/ultracommode-voted-1-most-comfortable-bedside-commode-chair-soft-warm-padded-and-foldable-xl-seat-with-100-open-front-padded-pivoting-armrests-adjustable-height-free-commode-pail-blue

The arms fold down, so transfer from bed-lying to poo position is easy. Also, the pail can be removed from the front allowing full access to all playground areas while seated.

As to being watched on the potty, it can be really embarrassing. When in hospital some time ago, I got very constipated from the meds. I refused laxatives because I was confined to bed and didn't want to be made to poo uncontrollably on a bedpan. So the doctor ordered a large volume enema.

Two nurses came in, set up a commode bedside, prepared a large, full, clear disposable bag of soapy water and hung it on the IV pole. I was a bit weak post-op, but they filled me with the whole bag and then positioned me on the commode and steadied me there while the enema worked. When I'd finished pooing, one nurse steadied me, while the other wiped me clean, and I was put back to bed. Embarrassing does not begin to describe the experience, but the enema was successful. All in a day's work for them, I guess.

I am always strapped into my potty chair these days ,hone arevthe days of truing to use potty ,I am in a power wheelchair secured at toes ankles knees pelvis and torso ,so anywhere I am when nature calls is another diaper to wash. So I have a commode chair but it doesn't get used anymore .

I would love that! Sounds like it would be really humiliating and thrilling at the same time. I would love the urging on and encouragement.

I remember when I was 2 1/2 or 3, I was in a home daycare, and there were a group of other kids. The daycare provided put a potty right in the middle of the playroom, and I remember some of the kids sitting on it. One of the boys was playing in the corner with me and another boy, I remember seeing him get up and start pulling his pants and underwear down and seeing his penis. The other boy asked him what he was doing, and he said “I have to go to work!” Then he fumbled over to the potty and sat down for a little bit, then he got up and I looked in and saw the peepee he made. I was too scared to use it except on one of the last few days I was there, when I sat down on it, I saw some kids clapping while I was sitting, but nothing happened.