Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

@Turkey1 You are lucky to have an enemate with the approval of your husband. You can enjoy all the pleasures and erotic aspects of your enema exchanges! An ideal arrangement.

My wife knows about my enemas. I once hoped to involve her in these activities. But I didn't succeed. So now my family doesn't notice my additional hobby, and I don't bother them with it.

I’m generally quite private about it. maybe ten years ago I told my nesting partner about it (we’re polyamorous) but we’ve never done it together as she’s never really been interested. I told my other partner maybe two years ago but it has still been hard to figure out ways to share it, since they have no concept of enemas being an erotic activity. What has worked for me is to setup times for us to do sexting while I’m playing by myself, and I’ll tell her what I’m doing, what it feels like etc and occasionally send pics. We’re still working up to actually playing together but it’s been really nice to at least figure out a way to share the activity in the meantime.

Thinking about it, quite a few....first all the Zity people that exchanged views with me...even more all the people on Fetlife that read my profile and that is quite a few...a lot I've met socially at munches and other events.... all my close friends and old colleagues, I've never hidden my preference for a shot of warm liquid over a pill....my wife knew fro right after we started being serious and she was not shy about it with her friends...and of course, all family is aware, from sister to daughters, to old aunts and cousins...often I even get asked for opinion and recipes.... well, not all of them know of the "fetish" side of it...they think I'm an older guy with his old fashion ideas.... but, many are often curious about it....

My sister and my husband know of my enema fetish along with other things. I think my mother who gave me twice a week enemas all the way up to the time I left for collegte, might have suspected that I "enjoyed" enemas but we never discussed it as my parent's their sex life was kept very private between them.

@Wolf2007 what happened with this from a long time ago?

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1017234

It'd be interesting to know.

Only my wife!

My love and sexualization of enemas is one of the most poorly kept of family secrets, mostly because I tell most of my family. My mother knew, my ex-wife knows. My stepdaughter knows. Her husband knows. The adult grandkids know. My minister knows. Most of my cousins know, and several of my close friends know. One of the most cathartic things I have done in my life is come out of the bathroom closet and become open about my sexuality. My advice would be not to worry about because most people really don’t care how much you like enemas.

It has been 6 years since I posted in this thread… and I thought I’d give an update…

I said before I had hidden it from my girlfriend for 2 years, well that relationship ended 3 years ago, and have been with my new partner for two years and going very well.

Like before I had kept it quiet but I didn’t hide it as much as before. I have finally told her about it, not quite how much I like them but she is aware I take them, and she said she’s open to trying it herself 😃

I think this is a very personal and intimate story. Apart from my first girlfriend, which is why she left me, and my current long-term partner, who fortunately also loves these games, nobody else knows. And I'm not going to change that.

Oh, and by the way, our relatives will find out after we die, when they clear out our apartment.

My husband knows and I think anyone that has read my Zity profile, posts, and stories knows I have an enema fetish as well. My mom likely suspects I do too as she was an advocate of twice a week enemas for my sister and me as we grew up starting sometime before 6 years old. Denise

I have never shared that interest of mine with anyone.

Frankly no-one. Just keep my enema fetish to myself. I'm feeling quite fragile tonight. Wish someone was here to help give me my 2 quart enema and hold me tight.

Nobody other than those I've chatted with online. Received my first from a nurse as a young teen and was hooked immediately. I'm now 60 and have been doing them ever since, but never gotten one from someone else again and definitely never shared my interests with my wife - not sure how she would react if she knew. I'm lucky that I have lots of alone time for solo play!

I have told dozens of people over the years. I will dismiss all the people on other forums or boards because they didn't know who I was, but there were many of those going back many years.

I guess I have probably told 30 or 40 people in addition but I don't just go roaring out telling people I love enemas although I sometimes wind up there. When I tell them instead is the truth: I start out by telling them I was cured by chronic fatigue syndrome by combination of water enemas, and ozone enemas. What I don't say in that point it's that I had already been taking enemas all my life and my wife at the time participated in recreational enemas discovering the cure or treatment for chronic fatigue syndrome was completely true. The fact that I already loved enemas made me more receptive and even enthusiastic for that cure. I was seeing a couple of holistic people at the time. I was also seeing colonic people which I told people about.

Today, I tell people about enemas in the context of health, which I sincerely believe. I just don't tell them about the sexual interest.

I was introduced to enemas as a child as were many of you, and was immediately hooked most of my neighborhood friends were given enemas. Some of them liked them and admitted it. of course, I felt bad and conflicted about this until penthouse posted letters about people who loved enemas. Then I read the journal articles by Dr. Danko. I was very clear with my fiancé at the time that enemas and spankings with both be part of my life and that if she didn't, at least try them, that I would not marry her. I said that somewhere else here, but I can't remember where.

So I guess I couldn't begin to know how many people know about it. The most important thing is that I don't have any shame whatsoever, and if people did find out that I found them sexually appealing, I consider it's their problem if they don't like it. Not mine.

Hope that was helpful!

My wife, my best friend, a young kinky lady we had living with us in a polycule, a few zity members I know IRL, bunch of directors and porn stars from kink.com (specifically everything butt), about 300 bdsm club members in NorCal that attended our classes from 2006-2009, anyone that came to dungeon play parties we hosted or played at, all the Efest West attendees and performers, and a partridge in a pear tree.

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My wife.

Our ex-daughter-in-law, also known as, she who will not be named.

My mom may have suspected. Whenever I could sneak into my parents' bathroom for 30 to 90 minutes and not be disturbed or noticed or suspected, I used my mom's enema equipment. Afterwards, I always cleaned and dried everything and then put it back the way I found it. If she suspected, she never let on.

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I wouldn’t say I have an enema fetish, even if I sometimes greatly enjoy the enemas I take for health, and despite being so conditioned at this point that even the thought of taking one can make me wet. It is still possible for me to have a purely clinical enema, however, and about half of the ones I take are just that. I’d say I happen to enjoy multiple aspects of enemas ranging from clinical to sexual.

I’m sure the world outside this board would say I have a fetish, because normal people are supposed to hate enemas. And I definitely don’t.

My giver had to have noticed that enemas heightened my sexual response, but I don’t think we ever had that conversation. Preparing to give seemed to always give him an enormous erection, which I never commented on, but I think we tacitly knew enemas were a turn-on on either side of the nozzle.

The only person I’ve told is my husband, but rather than saying I have a fetish, I pointed out that enemas bring a lot of blood flow to sensitive areas, which still seems about right to me.

Even the list of people who know of my enema use at all is short—my parents, my first husband, my giver, my current husband, and one very close longtime work colleague who has served as cover a time or two when my IBS has interfered with work.

I wouldn't say I have a "habit" per se. Or a fetish, for that matter, although I've used enemas sensuously throughout adulthood. As for people who've known that I enjoy this pleasure, there would be my wife, for sure. And there was a lady with whom I had a brief fling many years ago, who was similarly into enemas. And another couple with whom I engaged in threesomes for a while, also years back. As far as I know, that's about it, a total of four.

My wife is the only one who knows. I had other girlfriends before her, but we never got to a place where I was ready to share that I was doing enemas just for the fun of it.

@Sweetest Relief:

I wouldn’t say I have an enema fetish, even if I sometimes greatly enjoy the enemas I take for health, and despite being so conditioned at this point that even the thought of taking one can make me wet. It is still possible for me to have a purely clinical enema, however, and about half of the ones I take are just that. I’d say I happen to enjoy multiple aspects of enemas ranging from clinical to sexual.

Yes, you have a fetish.

@jonormal in that case I wish my interest were a bit more…fetish-y? I often put off enemas I need for health reasons as they seem rather chorelike, hence my block-of-rocks experience of last week. I’d think a true fetish would be more motivating and uniformly pleasurable.

On the other hand, I’m glad to be able to enjoy non-enema sexual activities without rating them as less-than, so maybe I should be careful what I wish for.

I don’t know…the “fetishist” label just doesn’t quite feel like me. I’ll go with “enthusiast,” even if sometimes I could be more enthusiastic.

Only the zity ccommunity knows of my fetish. I have kept it bottled up for 70 years. Wish it were otherwise.

I have mentioned this before, but I've told lots of people.

If you put it in the context of health, you can talk about it in a matter of fact fashion. I always then watch people for their reaction. I have lots of training in psychotherapy, but have not been certified because that's not the reason I learned it.

So I can always tell pretty much what someone's thinking if I can stand close to them and get in rapport with them. So I immediately know whether or not to pursue the topic and ask questions that invite the other person to react. Many of them, tell me that they are interested from my health perspective and ask questions. If they sort of blush, I think they are sexually interested, but may never do anything about it.

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