Taking Enemas and the Girlfriend

Ok, now to start this off I've giving myself makeshift enemas since I was like 8 or 9.

Plastic hosing and a balloon attached to the end. You get the idea. Anyways, I've never used true enema equipment, I've always made mine, in case I have to throw away.

Paranoia. :/

I'm 22 (male) and I'm having trouble sharing with my g/f lets call "L". Now my ex g/f "J" I shared with her also, she wasn't so much into the enema thing. We did the air enema or inflation for a while, mostly she did to me. But "L" I shared it with her my fetish or so. She was fine with it. So once we gave enemas to one another, rather I gave to her, then I gave to myself while doing so she looks at me and asks "what was the reason we're doing this?" Me laying in the tub, hose in bottom, with a "tent pole" between my legs. I was dumb founded. I couldn't say anything. So i played it off, I was like "just kidding haha" But I wanted to tell her this really turned me on. Hell "L" and I even did the inflation thing also, less mess and more volume. But we haven't done tho's things for awhile and I'm having a hard time talking to her.

I know she loves me and that's why she lets me do it. But I'm scared to talk about it with her, I don't want to chase her away.

So if anyone has any thoughts, male or female, it can only help.

-F

Yepper, if your like most of us enemas become a centerpiece of your sexuallity. Without them(enemas and anal play) your not satisfied. So she needs to be at least understanding of the fact that enemas arouse you and are a part of your sexuality...Otherwise you'll have a miserable marriage..Just ask some here..

Michael2

You need to be honest about your enjoyment of them. If she didn't notice what was created and like it, then I'm sadden. I like to make him "alert" so then I can enjoy him. Maybe she won't want to do them with you, but atleast you came clean. It's no fun to hide them.

Try an honest frank discuss... the results might surprise you

If she really loves you she will accept you and your enemas.

whether she does them.......let her get used to the idea and maybe she will let you do her as often as you do yourself.

thats hoe i got all of my g/f's involved and quite a few really loved them as much as i do. 😁