Libido changes

I don't know what has come over me recently, but my libido has been skyrocketing. Perhaps it is an increase in caffeinated energy drinks, stress. The same thing happened to me last year about this time. When it happens, I revert to my med fetish. I don''t know if exploring this more will make things better or worse.

Dearjohn:

libido changes are very common in all of us I think you should not be too much concerned about it. about turning to your med fet in this kind of periods won't harm you. I don't know at what point of your exploration of the med fet are you but maybe you're like me: med fet in me comes without a direct sexual conotation, I don't mix sex with play exams but then the memories and the fantasies enrich my sexual life(my regular sexual life)

don't worry

Well mine is definitely variable. I hadn't been here for a while.. now I am. 😃

I have the same issue; and I don't understand it at all. I have been in a low arousal state for weeks now with no interest in any fetishes or in sex with my wife. I don't get erections and there is no precum. This is very different from my high arousal state where I practice med fet whenever my wife is out of the house, and spend lots of time doing it. I don't know what causes me to switch from one state to another; it doesn't seem predictable, and I have been doing this for 20 years or more.

Everyone goes through libido changes throughout their lives. A lot of things effect your libido, aging, having kids, watching porn, hormones, medications, etc. I have always been told that a woman's libido increases in her forties, and a man's starts to decrease. If this is true, I am looking forward to my forties. 😜

Dearjon69,

As Kimberly so well stated, everyone experiences changes in their libido, it's what makes us who we are as different individuals. Please keep in mind that outside of physiological causes, libido, in all of it's manifestations is greatly affected by an individuals psychological state at any given time. When you combine the two, it can be an interesting life. 😃

G.N.

My husband went through an odd libido change. It happened about two weeks after he started a prescription medication for low thyroid. It's called "Synthroid" His thyroid output was a bit low so our doctor had him go on this medication. It got to a point where he could not get an erection no matter what we did. He was very down in the dumps over this. He flat out told our doctor that he would not continue to use that medication. It took nearly three months to get that out of his system. He's doing good now. Be very careful with all medications. This synthroid did not agree with my husband. His thyroid level is a bit low but he lives with that.

gynedoll

I dont know but but when my wife hit 37 she stoped wanting to be physical. it sucks since i have emotional needs also. i dont push her or make her feel bad but it will be 1 year in march since we did anything. i have tried to talk to her about it but she gets offended even at the slightest talk about sex. sex was fun..

When my wife was her late thirties she could not get enough. When I expresssed surprise she smiled and said it was pay back for when we were in our twenties and that was all I thought about. Looking back.......it was great.

My libido hasn't changed much but the fear of another heart attack has changed the frequency.