Enemas and BDSM Play

Well, from a personal view, i cannot imagine bdsm without enema. Because, other than washing out the subject, giving an enema to him / her implies domination, and controling the sub's most intemate processes is absolute domination!

This would be my idea of heaven

Giving or getting a two quart enema enema while bound, combined with spanking, clothes pins, and nipple clamps is quite a BDSM experience. With the enema given slowly using an inflatable butt plug nozzle, stopping periodically to spank the upturned butt, it can be a 30 munite plus session!

My girl friend wants to do a session where I allow her and a guy (I am not bi) to tie me over the back of a chair and slowly give me a two quart enema. All the time I am getting the enema I will have to be sucking or rimming the guy. She will stop the enema to use a light leather paddle to give me 10 licks after each pint and the guy will change positions from sucking to rimming and back to sucking each time she stops to paddle me. If I do not perform orally as directed she will stop the enema flow and give me 10 extra licks. So the enema and paddling will be motivational! She insist I must take the entire two quarts in this manner.

I have recieved many enemas from my dom while being restrained. the restraints take away all of my control, and adds to the experience just knowing the solution, size, and hold time are all under control of someone else.

An enema done with a double balloon nozzle can be easily used for various levels of punishment or pain. I prefer to stay on the lighter side when giving, but that is just me and my preference.

I think enemas are very much part of the bdsm play scene because enemas can definitely be used to assert power and dominance over a partner! Barry

BDSM and enemas are great together, personally i think there can't be nothing better, diaper for that and it's heaven for me 😃

Enemas have the ability to envoke multiple levels of reactions...from tender, loving enemas to humiliation enemas. That's the beauty of them....they can be used to please most anyones tastes.

I would love to be stapped down by someone dominant and experienced in the art of enemas, someone who knows how far he/ she can push the limits of comfort.

The idea of being at the mercy of someone, total surrender, and the openness and intimicy an enema brings are all concepts that would thrill me superbly.

The bondage serves as a means of blocking all escapes, there s no way to avoid it (willingly)when you are strapped down with the dom having full acces and the means of filling you up and making you "suffer"through whatever he or she throws at you. it enhances the pure submision...

A three or four quart soap- sud retention enema will wake you up. Do it in the bath- tub.When she sets the timer look out!If you are really bad it can get even more elaborate.

For me, enemas are a large component of the BDSM experience-the surrender of control combined with the pleasure (and the delightful pain)of being filled and then "forced" to hold the enema according to the desires of the top--WONDERFUL!!!, especially when combined with other aspects like e-stim, flogging,etc.,as the enema is retained.

The use of an enema in BDSM play I think is best if the sub knows that it is available for my use at anytime but does not know if it will be used in advance of play or in culmination. I think it's the most erotic if the sub is bound, but having the person submit themselves, willingly, because you told them to, with no restraints, means they have given themselves to you... also hot.

The "forced" aspects combined with the lose of control is truely an amazing experience with others who you completely trust.

The enema is one of the most powerful tools you have in your toy chest.

There is simply no being in control when someone is giving you an enema. Like the book title says, it really is an intimate invasion. Being told it's time, being all lubed up, having the entire soapy bag emptied, and having to hold it -- "I know the cramps are uncomfortable, sweetie, but that's just the enema doing its job and you're going to hold it until I'm ready for you to release it, so just hush and try to breath deeply".

For someone who needs to be made to feel submissive, there's just no better tool than the enema.

I have read every single reply to this post and thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and ideas. I shall live vicariously through you, as I have yet to experience an enema within a BDSM scene. I have not found one Dominant, Master, play partner, or significant other who can get past the 'taboo' of this subject. I have been required to give myself enemas prior to play, but even when I offered to let them do it to me, they refused and gagged in disgust. My spouse treats me like I have the plague when he knows I'm about to give myself one, and then he just laughs at me afterward. I honestly think it would be wonderful to experience this at the mercy of my Dominant or Master, or even my spouse as it might help remove this 'chip' I have on my shoulder most of the time and help me get back to my submissive self after a long period of being dominant in everything else. Until then, I'll just stalk Zity and read through the posts. Again, thank you for sharing!

Many years ago I enjoyed a relationship with a girl. She was very open to all sorts of scenarios. In one of them, she was dressed as a schoolgirl. Short pleated skirt and a white blouse. Under the skirt she wore a garter belt and dark nylons. I started out telling her that I was very angry with her behaviour. She was to receive a spanking and an enema. I got a bulb syringe filled with hot water and placed it on the coffee table beside a jar of vaseline. I told the young woman to get over my lap and prepare for her spanking. She lifted her skirt and draped herself across my knee. She wasn't wearing any panties. Just the nylons and garter belt. I made sure her short skirt was out of the way and started to spank her ass. Slowly and methodically. I increased the pressure and speed of the spanks. The girl was kicking her legs about and thrashing over my lap. I could hear the sound of her nylons rubbing together. Very exciting.

After ten minutes of the spanking, her ass was cherry red. A nice contrast against the dark nylons. I stopped spanking her ass and reached over for the vaseline. She knew what was coming but she protested. I ignored her complaints and with my left hand, I spread her ass cheeks far apart. The puckered rose of her asshole was on full display before me. I had a glob of vaseline on my right index finger and started spreading grease onto her asshole and then slowly up into her rectum. She was squirming more than ever as my finger explored her anus. After spreading the vaseline around as much as I could, I pulled my finger out of her ass and reached for the bulb syringe. The nozzle of the syringe was quite thick; about the width of my finger. I pushed the nozzle into her ass and kept pushing until the rubber of the bulb was up against her ass. Gently squeezing the bulb, I filled her ass with hot water. She kept begging me to stop but I pushed and pulled the syringe in and out of her ass, squeezing all the while. I kept the nozzle in her rectum even after the bulb was empty, pushing it in and pulling it out. This rhythm that I set up was enough to make her moan and quiver until she experienced a huge orgasm. What a blow job I got after that!

Being restrained while getting an enema with bdsm play is extremely intimate and stimulating! We like to draw a spanking /enema session out by tying the bottom over something like a bar stool, nude or wearing garter belt and stockings. We take our time and slowly give them a two quart enema using an inflatable butt plug nozzle. After each pint we stop the flow and paddle them (ten licks, five on each cheek) with a leather slapper padddle. Takes at least 30 minutes.

I have actually found that very few doms know how to administer an enema in a safe & erotic way .

Nurse Jill in CA is very good but she is a RN . I do not have to tell this group that a pierced colon is a disaster that cannot easily be remedied , even in the ER , Here is one technique that is helpful .

Insert the nozzle tip slightly , maybe an inch , then grasp the HOSE & move the nozzle in farther .

This way the nozzle seeks it 's own path . I have also found a small warm fleet oil enema , (soak in warm water for 5-10 minutes) prior to a longer nozzle will help . Again I do respect everyones intelligence here but never force anything into your own or anyones anus . Sorry to the pro dommes , I am sure I now deserve a spanking or worse .

I just had a remarkable experience with a pro domme whom I visit on a regular basis. She has been reluctant to introduce enema play into our scenes despite several broad hints and even overt requests on my part. So, I decided to bring a new bag with me to the session. I was stripped and made to wait on a straight chair while she assembled the new toy. She soon had it together and disappeared around the corner into the bathroom. Her usual play space is not set up to handle a "spill" very easily and hence some of her reticence. My breath came quickly and my pulse raced as I listened intently to the preparations she was making in the bathroom. I was fully aroused with throbbing erection when she returned.

She quickly bound my cock and balls with her favorite twine and left enough hanging to create a leash. I was "led" over to the bed on the floor that serves as the main prop in our sessions. Standing at the foot of the bed and facing the head, I was bent over with hands extended to the bed top. She rather smartly whipped my ass with a split tawse and when I was good and warm she said, "Now let's go see what we can do with that enema."

I was "led" once again into the bathroom. The bag was hanging on the shower rod. I expected to be placed in the tub in some way, but instead she commanded, "Sit on the toilet". I sat. She reached up and grabbed the hose and lowered the nozzle to about eye height (my eye height), it was the fluted douche nozzle. "Hold this," she commanded. I held it parallel to the floor as indicated and she picked up the liquid lube and squirted a generous glob on to the nozzle. She put the lube down and took the nozzle from me and commanded, "Lean forward". I was a little perplexed since I had never considered taking one of these while seated on the toilet. She leaned over me and rested her torso on my back. The nozzle was used to rub some of the lube onto my anus and then she deftly pushed it into me. I gasped. The hose was clicked and the flow started. I can be pretty vocal as the solution begins to fill me up (plain water in this case) and as the pressure builds I will moan, gasp and whimper. At my first sound of discomfort, she stopped the flow and asked, "Are you ok?" "Yes," I replied, "then be quiet," she commanded. The flow was started again and I suffered in silence. When the bag was empty, she pulled the nozzle free and let it dangle in the tub. She stood and I raised up still seated on the toilet. She stepped between my knees and commanded, "Put your arms around me." I obeyed and clung to her as I fought the urge to evacuate immediately. "Deep breaths," she commanded. I breathed and squirmed and gasped and whimpered. The pressure increased and I pleaded, "I need to go." "Not yet," she intoned. More squirming, gasping and whimpering and then I was pleading, "Please, let me release." "Hold it," her voice was stern. "Breath," I breathed. I knew I could not last much longer, "Oh, please," it was a tortured gasp. "Okay, you may release," she spoke. I clung to her and trembled as the liquid gushed into the toilet. When I was empty she stepped back from me. "You may use the toilet paper to clean yourself up when you are ready," I flushed and wiped and flushed again. When I stood up, I turned around and lifted the seat looking for brown splash marks on the underside and around the rim. I swabbed everything clean with more paper and then flushed a final time. I turned to the door where she was standing and our eyes met. "That was fantastic/awful", I gushed. "That was great!" she responded with a big smile. The act of clinging to her as I suffered and was then relieved had added a special element to the total surrender I experience during such play. It was indeed great.

I was "led" back into the main room and placed in the knee chest position on the end of the bed. A butt plug followed and the tens unit electrodes were placed on my perineum. The pulsed current contracted and relaxed my sphincter and I was butt fucked until I was delirious. It was a great session!