Try this

To try to draw your partner into doctor activities, try this. During foreplay, touch like a doctor giving an exam, and do that for a few sessions. Then add some key phrases, and you will soon know if the coast is clear to move on to role playing.

Why dont you play the doctor first....slowly and sensuously examine him, get some nice latex gloves, blindfold him perhaps and let him give in to sensation. Be very slow, very deliberate, speak as the doctor would and i bet you will drive him wild. Then then next time, he will get a good idea of what is required. Buy a stethoscope and listen to each others hearts, say you are having an experiment to see who can make the other one more excited. Talk about your fantasies in public, whisper what you would do to him if he was the patient, as its in public, he cant do anything about it but the suspense will be amazing. Comment on programmes on tv, explain about your visit to the doctor, say you wish it was him. See what he thinks.

Keep us informed, good luck.... nnnurse69

Good idea !!

Recently, my gf told me that she learn to give injections. but i fainted i was affraid of that. I don't know if that should stay in my mind or if i should share it with her. I don't know how should could react. But sure I will try your technic 😄

So, if you faint, she could resuscitate you....check your pulse, you dont die from fainting, quite an erotic experience by all accounts, as long as she keeps your airway open you'll be fine. 😁

I like NNNURSE's sugggestions. I sometimes wonder how my partner will respond to my fetish of playing "doctor" but in reality I rarely have found any male that wasn't gung-ho for this type of play especially when they can be the "naughty doctor :-) Sometimes girlfriends are more reluctant to play because they dread real doctor exams and I need to be more patient in leading them into this erotic side I find in playing doctor.. After a few times I can actually advance to some bondage during the play.

I think what this is about is confidence.....and dominance on the part of the examiner.....Strict examination,ensuring submission......allowing the patient to feel humiliated and then 'allowing' them to come...

They will love it. x

I got to finally live out my fantasy when I told my girl I didn't wash my hands before we were about to fool around. Conviniently there was a box of latex gloves nearby. She must have thought it was interesting because she let my glove up and examine her inside. Unfortunately you can;t use the same reason all the time. I found out that bringing it up every subsequent time became more difficult.

You would have find different scenarios each time, something to keep her guessing. She may get more into it when she sees how much it turns you on.

For me, i find it more sensual to be fingered with gloves on.... try making sure that your hands are cold, that any lube is 'ice' cold and very, very slowly, slide your fingers into your girlfriend. A very erotic experience is to let your girlfriend see by putting a mirror in front and letting her see what you are doing. Slowy explain, give running commentary ie, see how i spread the labia, revealing.... ah, a swollen clitoris, this is quite normal, and may occur in any examination....... then, spread her lips wide and push your fingers deep inside her, twisting, probing, examining this orifice...... the reason, Dr, is up to you. Make her feel the most special person ever. Worship her. Comment on her arousal, then explain, aloud what you would need to do in order to ensure arousal continued, show/explain how to make her come....(purely for science of course)

I totally agree with you about the gloves! It is just kinkier to do it with gloves on and not to mention cleaner for those who don't like to get their hands dirty.

After providing my wife a couple of drinks while watching TV with her, I then showed up in the living room in medical scrubs with a stethoscope around my neck. I called her name like in a waiting room and told her that the doctor would see her next in the exam room/bedroom. That night was most memorable!

Very sweet and fun...hubby has done the same for me... its all fun once I get past the giggles

Jem

A very good hint. Generally its the best way to progressively introduce the fetish to your partner.

I left my stethoscope out twice and my boyfriend did nothing. He just glanced at it. So disappointing. Now what?

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I left my stethoscope out twice and my boyfriend did nothing. He just glanced at it. So disappointing. Now what?

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Hmm, maybe try telling him that it seems like your heart is beating faster after exercising and ask him to listen for you and see what he thinks.

Im too embarassed for that. I want him to just pick it up on his own. He does check my pulse often, why wouldnt he use the steth?

I think that's great advice. I'm thinking maybe of printing this for my man? what do you all think?

Or leave an appropriate page open in your web browser for him to stumble upon.

Good luck! 😃

Well, don't do it at work or where the kids or neighbors might see it, obviously (unless, of course, your fantasy involves the neighbors.) 😉

My husband knows all about my fetish, but all he says is "go ahead and do what you want, just not with me." How do i handle that? Do you know how hard it really is to find someone to play with? So for now, i just experiment on myself. It passes the time.

soumise

I can practice on my boyfriend though he is often reluctant to do so, but i assure him it's to practice my clinical examination skills. i just don't think that sort of thing turns him on.

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i can practice on my boyfriend though he is often reluctant to do so, but i assure him it's to practice my clinical examination skills. i just don't think that sort of thing turns him on.

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Your boyfriend quite possibly may be like a lot of people of both genders, afraid of the new and unknown, which is not uncommon. The next time the subject comes up about "practicing your clinical examination skills", perhaps reply in an enthusiastic, cheerful manner telling him you really enjoy doing examinations in a gentle proficient manner, and that the more gentle and accurate you are, the happier you are. Also, is your job such that you can connect a substantiation to it ? If not try it anyway. 😃

Sincerely,

G.N.

My experience with an ex-g/f was very smooth. Over a few drinks one night at the bar, she was wearing a short skirt with no panties...I began to tell her how hot I thought it was if an unsuspecting man caught a glimpse up her skirt on the barstool. After some discussion on that topic with her agreeing, I said "I'm gonna tell you a secret". In the same accord I told her about how hot I thought it was thinking about her exposed at the doctor...and the snowball rolled and I got to spill my guts about my whole fetish. "Yeah, you know that is really hot when I think about it", was her response 😃

Back at home (this was mentioned earlier in the thread I believe), I touched her, and fingered her as the doctor would, talking to her like a doctor would...and it drove her wild. It wasn't long before I had her on my makeshift exam table with a speculum in her.

Good luck to those of you pursuing this! Be patient and I hope my 2 cents helps...

Try an adult DVD movie that has some medical Fetish in it, during an exam scene, mention that it is getting you hot, or that it looks fun. A movie will get you both on the same page, instead of one thinking of Med Fet and one thinking about work. It worked for me.

Why not let him come to one of your real doctor's appointments? It worked for us 😃

Wow that really is a trusting Husband.

My wife is interested in attending nursing school. She knows that I like enemas for health reasons, so I've suggested to her that she can learn and practice on me. I've also let her know that she has to know how it is on the other end of the nozzle as well. She has consented- reluctantly at times, but is slowly opening up more and more to enemas, suppositories, exams, etc. Medical curiosity or wishes to be healthful can always lend itself to an introduction to med-fet exploration.