Is squirting real, or is it just more porn fakery?

Ladies: I have many female friends with whom I enjoy totally uninhibited conversations about our sexual history, habits and escapades, but none of us has ever admitted to or bragged about squirting. It just never came up in our conversations. Can any of our lovely Zity ladies clarify or confirm that squirting is a real thing? Do you do it? Have you seen it done? Do you know anybody who does it or has done it?

I don't think I've seen or read anything about it here on Zity either.

Search bar does reveal a few threads - most recent one here: https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=5763;page=1

Don't have much else to add i'm afraid - I've never seen it in person. I assume it's real because well regarded sex educators (can't remember which ones off the top of my head) have said it's real, but i'm sure it's also faked a lot in porn.

I posted in the thread @Ell3n links above that I had never squirted. Since then I have, so I guess I come down on the 'it's real' side. That said, it was nothing like 99% of the 'Squirting videos' I've seen online. Those are women peeing. Mine involved about a thimble full of fluid that squirted out while I was cumming really hard whilst hubby was eating me and using a vibe on me. I didn't notice any difference in the quality of my orgasm (it was fucking awesome but no more awesome than I had experienced before).

I have never squirted before. But a really good friend of mine with whom I can have really honest and intimate conversations has told me she has, but only once.

BTW if we’re talking about involuntary bodily acts while in the midst of exceptionally intense orgasms, it’s been my experience that women are more likely to fart than squirt during really powerful ones. Especially if there’s been anal play 😇

I had a girl friend many years ago (we were both in our 40s at the time), and she quite often would squirt, not the copious amounts seen in porn; I believe those are faked. My g/f would ejaculate out anywhere from a thimble full as described above by @Nurse Phillips to a 1/4 cup. There are many medical articles on the subject.

I've known a few ladies that do release some extra juices if stimulated in a certain way, in my experience usually orally with anal play...also happened very often when fisted, and in these cases some extra pee was finding it's way out...also met a few that were conscius of what was going to happen and wanted to get away, very ashamed. I usually got to calm them down and bring them to a squirty release. Yes, pee was involved.

My last friend, an italian lady in her fifties, I try to see her as often as I can. Really loves deep anal, I use a dildo while eating her out. We have a deal... If I make her squirt, she'll give me an enema and then peg me. Of course she always gets her enema when we start....

My wife does when I am eating her pussy and fingering her. It's sweet and doesn't taste like pee. I don't care. She orgasms really hard and squirts a big gusher on my face and mouth. I love it. Just have to change the sheets.

Squirting is just something that has been introduced by the porn society. I have often been known to pee at an inappropriate time but the female body does not have any mecahism for "shooting" stuff out, although with stimulation, we do produce copious amounts of lubrication making intercourse easier.

I can verify it is absolutely real. I used to have to keep rubber pads on my bed for one particular lady friend.

It’s real. I had a short fling with a woman for a weekend at her beach house. True story. She was over 45 (not sure if that matters?) and I used my fingers on her during a lengthy marathon as she was standing, leaning against the foot of the bed. There was a fairly large puddle on her hardwood floor after the fact. First time I’d ever seen that.

In my early 20s I had sex with a married woman that said she hadn’t cum in a long time. During regular sex mostly her on top she soaked me from my abdomen down both legs and came every time I thrusted into her. Some of it seemed to be pee mixed with white fluids. I’m in my late 60s now this is the only time that has happened.

When a man is able, to bring a woman to " squirt ", by caressing the special parts of her body, he can be very sure, doing all in the right way !! - and so he should be taking it " as a present ", when the fluid is starting !!

For me, it is involuntary pee by wife. It just happens. About a desert spoon full.

We always put a towel underneath.

I've done so twice, my gf does it regularly when my bf takes her, she is a few years older and has children so there are differing factors.

My gf squirts and can do it multiple times during sex. Tends to work with her on top and I raise my hips or her under and I lift her legs and hips high. She describes it like an explosion inside her. Sometimes its really like a jet other time more like a trickle. I love it and want to make her do it again and again!!!!

Out of 20+ partners I've never known a squirter. I did have one lover, though, whose vagina would absolutely flood with her juices whenever she had an orgasm. If I were inside her at the time, I could feel it heavy and warm around my penis -- which usually meant I'd be adding to the flood pretty soon!

I’ve never squirted myself but if it is possible it is something I’d like to work towards!

1. Squirting is real. We had med play class at efest west where the play doc made this lady gush and spray across the room. I saw it with my own eyes and it didn’t look, feel, or smell like urine. Saw lots of squirting at the dungeon over the years, including during classes specifically on female ejaculation.

2. I’ve personally known ladies that squirt. It’s less a spray like you see in movies, and more like a dripping wet vagina that coats your hands with watered-down ejaculate. The big spray you see in porn could be fake or they found an outlier that can make a show of it. Again, the real ejaculate is not yellow, not piss smelly, and has more of a lubricant-like slime consistency.

Check out my friend Rain DeGrey, who is famous for cumming non stop and squirting. I know in her case, it’s real.

3. There are lots of variables behind female squirting like being well hydrated, very aroused over a long period of play, and properly stimulated by a skilled lover over and over until the female is multiorgasmic. I don’t think I’ve seen a lady squirt that hadn’t already cum a few times before finally ejaculating after a long build up to explosion. Sometimes they are so lost in multiple orgasms, they don’t even know they’re spraying all over you.

4. It varies from person to person but it seems like fisting or working towards compete fisting sets up all the variables needed to trigger female ejaculation. That full feeling that comes from a big phat cock, huge toy, or fist does it for some ladies, though everyone is different. Sometimes it just feels like a spray on your penis when you are inside and the female gland mists your member with creamies, while other times you need a special towel.

5. Anatomy changes after you have kids or get older. Nurse and I have been together for decades and her orgasms have changed many times over the years. This is just reality. Some people never could squirt, and then one day, things change. Boom- a new squirter is born.

6. Finally, some women can squirt but don’t because they think they are going to pee. For years I got the nurse close to g spot orgasm until she’d hit a plateau and tell me she had to pee. This overwhelming urge to urinate would ruin the vibe and we’d change it up ti avoid this sensation. Years later, we saw this dom work over this lady at the dungeon and he said, “if you feel like you have to go, just relax and let it out, you can thank me later”.

It hit us like a ton of bricks: maybe she was close to squirting and couldn’t because she was afraid or all psyched out by the thought of urinating during sex. Just go with it and embrace the ejaculation was our takeaway. And, if it is piss, who cares? - it’s just that much kinkier.

I would love to know as to what organ or mechanism is used that enables women to squirt !

@JSChallenger If you're not talking about peeing, pelvic contractions caused by orgasm can express fluid from the Skene's glands with some force - but that's a very small amount. 'Female ejaculate' beyond a teaspoon full is likely urine.

Sounds rather like a fairytale to me or a porn industry's idea. Can't remember that I've ever squirted.

Sounds rather like a fairytale to my or a porn industry's idea. Can't remember that I've ever squirted.

- OK, i see - but then you have missed something, what is very sexual and also an evidence, that the caressing partner know's, what button's of women's are worthful to play with !!