Do you have suggestions for underwear for light incontinence pre- and postpartum?

I had some incontinence, dribbling really, after my first child. I found underwear that offers a bit more absorption than others.

After my second, the issue was more severe. I did not want to wear diapers; I was adamant about it. But it was a problem. I eventually found a brand called Beautiful & Dry. They make disposable underwear that doesn’t look or feel like a diaper. One model was a tonga/tong; I loved them. I looked great, and they were really absorbent, particularly given the style. Perfect to carry me during the months of pelvic physio.

I’m pregnant again, and as things progress, I’m having some light incontinence. I cannot find my brand of underwear, and I’m on the last pack that I had kept after my last pregnancy, now a couple of years ago.

As far as I can tell, there is no incontinence garment of any kind marketed under that brand name. Do you still have the packaging on that last pack? You might try googling the mailing address to see if the company exists under another name; it's pretty common for the ABC company to decide to re-brand itself as the Fresh Feel company.

Multiple companies that rate various stuff have done women's incontinence panties. WireCutter likes Saalt Leakproof Comfort Brief, looks the most like regular underwear of any of our picks, but it’s good for very light leaks only. But it's not a tanga style. " Compared with many others we tested, this pair is subtle, soft, and stylish. But it works only for the lightest of leaks. It’s subtle — no matter what you’re wearing. Unlike the absorbent areas on our bulkier reusable and disposable picks, this pair’s absorbent area is incredibly well designed. So the brief can fit under even the tightest yoga pants, dresses, and leggings without making it obvious that you’re using an incontinence product." Might be a decent option, no? They also like the TomboyX bikini panties.

Good Housekeeping's website likes two kinds of Tena, Wuka, and two kinds of Jude. One of the Jude's is French-cut and looks like just panties to me.

Congratulations on the pregnancy! I hope you can find a product that suits you. Your gynecologist may be able to recommend one; you won't be the first pregnancy with a little leakage they've seen.