Speed and shame?

A delicate point that is rarely addressed in roleplay examinations is the rapid transgression of boundaries. The re-experience of this (and the study of the associated feelings) is also rarely discussed. After all, before we start working with a stranger via direct messages (even on zity.biz) with an examination chat, we first want to get to know the partner step by step, gain mutual trust and feel comfortable.

One theme we want to investigate is how the speed factor plays a role in the excitement of the average situation at the e.g. gynaecologist, or another doctor. Patient and doctor and didn’t never seen each other. They hardly know who you are, mutually. And after 4 to 5 minutes, the patient has to take off his clothes. In a normal situation, intimate contact is so nice that you can get used to each other and that there is affectionate foreplay. Especially females need enough tender warming up. The only long foreplay in a doctor's visit is the contactless long wait after making the appointment. Sometimes a very anxious period.

I am curious how that factor "speed" is experienced. You enter the home of someone you don't know at all. This person immediately opens a barrage of questions for the anamnesis and the problem definition. And after 4 or 5 minutes, he/she instructs you to take off all your clothes. How does speed play a role in the feelings of shame?