Guys- when/ how did you learn that girls get horny too?

Curious to hear your experiences growing up/ maturing when you learned that girls get horny too.

I think of the scene from the Netflix show Big Mouth where it’s like “guys… girls get horny too” and their heads literally explode.

What was it like for you?

I think I first realized it when I was 14 and an older girl/woman 18 basically seduced me. She definitely initiated the sex. Before then I had always been the initiator and just assumed the girls I groped before then just put up with it because that's what girls had to do if their boyfriends wanted it.

Looking back I have to think there were a few that were horny too, but I didn't pick up on it. So full of myself that I thought they only did it because I wanted them to indulge in some heavy petting for my pleasure and they would do it to please me.

I do know now looking back that a couple of the girls I went out with and petted actually came when I had my hands in their knickers. Didn't realize it at the time.

The arrogance of youth. 😃

I feel that scene is very realistic, there was a similar scene in the first season of Glee that made me realise that it wasn't just male hormones that drive have that kind of desire.

Growing up in the 1950s I was very sexually naive. Married at 23 to a woman who was 25 and even more sexually naive then I was. Heck, neither of us even knew that females could have orgasms! Eventually we figured that out after about 2 years of marriage. After the advent of the Internet in the late 1990s I found myself in chat rooms and reading stories and began to realize that yes, there were some women who did get horny (unfortunately my wife wasn't one of them).

But it wasn't until about 2003 when my wife and I were watching an episode of the "Dr. Phil" show that I realized that in some marriages the wife actually wanted sex more often than did the husband - - as that was the issue that Dr. Phil was working on with a couple on the show. They were in their late 30s, early 40s and the wife wasn't happy with the frequency that they were having sex. I couldn't believe it - - that there were women out there who wanted more sex than their husbands did - - what a revelation!

Yeah, early on, often clueless when young... I lost my virginity in high school to a girl who "dragged" me out into the woods and made it clear she wanted me to fuck her! And the time a girl brought me into her bedroom while she provocatively "changed clothes " in front of me, getting quite close to me, she did this, and while she didn't take off her undies, she bent over in front of me to take off her socks, then turned around to face me as she changed her bra, exposing quite large breasts. I was like a deer in the headlights... frozen, not sure what to do! (At this point, I'm clear on the "invitation" ...😉 And then there was the time I was in a bathroom with a girl I was dating and her friend, both only in their undies and bras, and they were conjecturing aloud, wondering about how anal sex would feel! Oh, the missed opportunities...🤣