Role Playing (Adult spanking a child)

I have wondered if role playing where an adult spanks a child hard and/or gives the child a punishment enema is within the rules of Zity. I, myself have mixed feelings of guilt about this sort of role play that in modern times, might be considered child abuse. I just wondered how others that have participated in this sort of role play feel. Denise

I guess it all depends on your mindset @Denise . Some people like to roleplay as littles/teens. I personally don't see any harm in it if that is what you both enjoy. No actual children are involved.

Hi Denise, I understand those mixed feelings you have.

Spanking as a form of punishment and discipline was always intended to correct behavior or teach a lesson about what one is doing wrong. That said, I do not condone child abuse; however, historically, this teaching method was most commonly used during childhood. Children and adolescents naturally tend to test boundaries. Furthermore, as individuals, we must learn the difference between right and wrong and what is socially acceptable—understanding that the world has rules and that a certain minimum standard of behavior is expected of you.

Now, regarding roleplay: it is an activity between consenting adults, and I see nothing wrong with it. It is part of our sexual preferences and arousal, or a mental need seeking fulfillment.

I enjoy taking on the role of "Daddy," or any authoritative adult figure; that way, I can be the one who guides and teaches—and, consequently, the one with the authority to correct and discipline if you are doing something wrong. A good spanking combined with a thorough "attitude adjustment" via enemas is always effective for this purpose.

@Denise Do you feel guilty because you think you should not be aroused about such topics? Or do you fear it could be illegal?

If your adult partner is willing to take on the persona of any age it’s not illegal. When I was in my 30s I had a girlfriend who was 30 but was small and fine featured. She looked 12 or so if she prepared for it. She enjoyed pretending and I enjoyed her too.

She could be mischievous. I recall one occasion when she was in character and we were at a hotel. Got on the elevator with a couple and another female. She cuddled up to me and said “Daddy, can I sleep with you again tonight?” In a very suggestive tone. The people wanted to look at us but didn’t.

Taking it outside of privacy can turn heads. But. She is an adult!

As long as everyone involved is adult, I don't think it can cause a problem.

Some like to relive what has happened to them in earlier years.

Been there, done that. We were both married adults. Married to each other. She brought it up.

There is nothing to feel guilty about. It is pure fantasy. I have such fantasies all the time. Between consenting adults, in private, or in your imagination, they cannot harm anyone. It does not mean you approve of such things happening to real-life young people, or would want to do such things or witness them done. Us ageplayers are wired the way we are wired. It does not mean we are evil. And don't let anyone tell you different.

As to what you post here, as long as it is within the site's rules, you should not have anything to worry about.

It is a fantasy. Clearly both of you know it. What is the issue then ? Denise are you feeling guilt over sexual arousal in your own childhood or perhaps arousal when you did spank a child ? Nothing to be ashamed of if you do I imagine many adults do though would never admit.