Silent During Play

So I got to experience my first real spanking last night… it was good for me but didn’t last nearly long enough. The dom I met ended the session prematurely because I was too quiet. I wanted him to continue and expressed it but he said he felt like a failure after trying all his tricks.

I went there to have a hard spanking but he did a little spanking and more dildo play to get me to cum. (I didn’t) He was very considerate of my limits/boundaries as it was my very first time doing a real play session. I was panicky at first but came around. Does anybody else have a problem with staying quiet no matter what during play, sex, etc.? I’m the only person I know who doesn’t make a single noise…

@TheDesireIsReal, We all have our own vocal reactions and that can include little or none. The sessions sounded (pun intended) more troubled by his insecurities than any issues you might have. You react how you react. BTW, there are other bodily reactions that are probably happening besides vocal ones. A decent Dom should notice and savor those

See, I was giving body language signals. I clenched my teeth and tensed my body when it hurt. I scrunched my hands and feet. I have never uttered a sound in the eight years I’ve been sexually active…. Not even when we were in a poly quad. I worked on it with one of our poly members and when I was finally getting somewhere… we broke up. 😔 I love my bestfriend but she is one jealous bitch.

@TheDesireIsReal, so you reacted and those reactions gave a nice view into what you were feeling and thinking. Very hot, my silent friend