Parents with enema kinks giving enemas to their kids

I've had a very large enema kink since I was quite young. Enemas are always dominant/submissively erotic for me. So when I became a parent, I was hesitant to give my kids enemas. I didn't want to dominate them or make them feel uncomfortable or pass on my enema addiction. There was never a clear medical indication that an enema should be given, so I never actually had to deal with the experience of giving my kids enemas. And I guess I was afraid once I started giving them enemas I wouldn't stop wanting to do it again.

But I'd really like to know other people's thoughts and experiences have been, whether you're a parent with an enema kink or you're the child of parents with an enema kink.

If you're reporting your thoughts and experience as a parent for whom enemas are an erotic kink, how did giving enemas to your kids affect you, them, and your relationship? I expect SOME families, parent and child, are comfortable with there being a bit of erotic tension in their relationships, and I kind of wish that had been true for me, but I didn't and don't know how that would affect the kids.

If you're reporting your thoughts and experience as one who was given enemas as a child by enema-loving parents, how did it feel to you? I suppose that would partly depend on whether we're talking about routine enemas for general health, or enemas in response to illness, or punishment enemas, or enemas given for no apparent valid reason, or enemas you sensed were for their own erotic gratification. (Years ago I saw a letter to Playboy Forum from a couple who openly stated that they gave their boy enemas because it aroused them and they would have great sex afterwards. The Playboy response was appropriately negative about such a practice!) Did the enemas you were given feel erotic to you? (They did to me as a child, although I'm pretty sure my mother did not have an enema kink.) How did it affect your relation with your parents and/or your life in general?

I grew up receiving enemas for whatever reason. After having kids, the doctors then didn’t recommend enemas as a cure. It was pills so big pharma could rake in the dollars. I left it up to my wife to talk to them and see what they wished to use. That’s how it was in our household.

A woman told me about her mother taking her children’s temperature rectally and giving them suppositories up to puberty and even beyond. Suppositories often seemed to come for no reason and the thermometer was pushed deeper than normal usage, which is all the more surprising since the mother was a nurse and thus knew correct use. She was troubled by this understanding that her mother may have had a fetish for this.

I’ve watched a video (I think I found the link here) where a lady explains how her grandmother gave her and her cousin enemas for no reason while their grandfather watched. She considered it a form of incest.

In short.. it may not be so rare.

I do not know if my parents had enema kinks or not as their private lives were kept very PRIVATE! My mother and grandmother felt twice a week enemas were a good "prevent all/cure alll" and my sister and I received twic a week enemas all the way through high school before we left for college. It seemed to work for both my sister and myself as we were almost never sick. I did develop a strong enema kink early in life that has been kept completely private from our kids. I think that they need to discover that "pleasure" on their own without experiencing it growing up. Denise

Regardless of what kink a person may have, it is my strong opinion that the parent has no right to even take the chance that they might through their actions instill or expose that activity on their children. it would be a form of abuse, and certainly a betrayal of the responsibility of the parent for the child. It is illegal to force yourself on another adult- a child certainly is entitled to the same protection.

I have a very strong enema fetish, I got them growing up, sneaked them and engaged with others to swap enemas over the years. I certainly should be labelled as having an enema kink.

If it was medically advised by an actual physician then yes I would have given an enema to my own offspring and it would be an entirely separate non kink situation, its not the same thing as play and easily separated.

I personally don't have a thing for injections but some here do... are you not having your offspring vaccinated? Those with a medfet... not taking offspring for annual well being visits?

Anyone who really cannot separate their adult kinks from anything needed in the real world most likely shouldn't be parents.

I have long thought that at least part of my mothers insistence on enemas was due to her own fetish. That said, when she was growing up enemas were far more popular than they are now, so I suppose there’s at least a small chance she gave enemas to me and my siblings because she felt her firsthand experience proved their effectiveness. I ended up with an enema fetish as a result and still somewhat regularly use them.

As mentioned by others, enemas are no longer a prescribing practitioners favourite remedy, and in a clinical setting I can’t recall the last time I encountered a patient who’d had/ was directed to have an enema.

I also never gave or plan to give any of my children enemas, there’s been no need. It is also my interest, not theirs. So, unless a medical need arises… It will stay a no.

My partner and I also proactively ensure that our interests are not exposed to anyone who does not or can not consent to knowing about it, including family and friends. Enemas mostly stay between me and our bathroom, but occasionally my partner, myself and the bathroom.

Anyone who really cannot separate their adult kinks from anything needed in the real world most likely shouldn't be parents.

Absolutely agree with this.

I think we know what enemas do for us and how aroused one becomes for me anyway. But why would we not think they did the same for our parents.i don’t think the feelings could be any different for them after all . E very house holds bags bulbs dabs folding syringes colon tubes closed top bags fountain syringes shy syringes etc.

Anyone who really cannot separate their adult kinks from anything needed in the real world most likely shouldn't be parents.

I agree with this.

I talked about this with my older sister Tess and our general consuses is that neither our mother or grandmother were into enema kinks, they were believers that enemas helped keep us healthy. It was mostly our family doctor that promoted enemas when sick and always a cool water enema if a fever was present, and almost every time there was a house call his parting words were "give him/her an enema". It was belief back in the 50s that the enema was a cure all or good for sickness preventation. And with today's medical mindset that most ailments start in the digestive tract, keeping our colons clean can't hurt.

We concluded long ago that the frequent enemas we received as children definitely supported our enjoyment through our lives, and although we stopped sharing enemas when puberty interrupted, we both still indulge albeit no longer together.

Marty,

LostInThe50s

@lostintranslation said,

I talked about this with my older sister Tess and our general consuses is that neither our mother or grandmother were into enema kinks, they were believers that enemas helped keep us healthy. It was mostly our family doctor that promoted enemas when sick and always a cool water enema if a fever was present, and almost every time there was a house call his parting words were "give him/her an enema". It was belief back in the 50s that the enema was a cure all or good for sickness preventation.

My siblings and I experienced the same thing growing up in the fifties. Our grandmother was a retired RN and a strong believer in enemas for kids, teenagers, and adults. To her, enemas were a cure all for a variety of different maladies. There were enemas for constipation, acting moody, or being out of sorts. On top of that, when the doctor made a house call, his usual prescription included daily enemas for whoever was sick in bed. Plus, recommended giving the ones not sick, a daily prophylactic enema to help keep them from getting sick. Something, both mom and grandma followed to the letter.

Enemas in the fifties, were a routine part of home first aid, and commonly used for a variety of different things. To us, even from an early age, enemas didn't hurt. In fact, they felt good. So, as we got older, the feelings enemas gave us, became even more pleasurable. Then, once grandma taught us personal hygiene as preteens, enemas became our responsibility. Afterwards, we used enemas for both health and pleasure. And never once, considered them a kink, or that mom and grandma had an enema kink. It was something we did, to take care of ourselves, that felt good. Nothing more.