Partner won't perform oral sex

I recently took a platonic relationship with a female friend to the next level. Long story short, I went down on her as part of our antics, and we both enjoyed it. I have licked her to orgasm every time we have been together over the last several months, and she has not yet returned the favor, even though she knows I want her to. I will continue to eat her every chance I get because she likes it, and so do I. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation with their partner, male or female? Did you continue to do without reciprocation, or did your partner change their mind?

I think there could be many factors influencing the situation you have - guessing is not the way forward. The obvious thing is what did she say when you asked why not? This answer, if there is one, may give us a steer.

IHas anyone ever been in a similar situation with their partner, male or female? Did you continue to do without reciprocation, or did your partner change their mind?

Sixty-nine is simipily devine. Better yet say it in French. It sounds much more romantic. Le soixante-neuf est tout simplement divin.

Here's what I would suggest to you from a woman's point of view. First reinforce how much you love preforming oral sex on her then discreetly add sex can be a two way street. She might ask what do you mean. Do you want to try it with you doing me too. If she is turned off with the idea, which I doubt she will be in this day and age, ask her to use her hand. I bet that she recipocates with that if nothing else. It's been my experience that most men like the women of top when preforming oral. I've been told that it's a view for which to kill! I am so naughty. I guess I need a spanking. One last piece of advice. The key to good sex is communication. I hope that I have been helpful.

I have been in a relationship with someone for the last seven years. I went down on her as soon as we were intimate, which she thoroughly enjoyed. No one had done that to her before successfully.

Unfortunately, she cannot bring herself to reciprocate. Apparently her husband had asked her for 54 years and he never could convince her either.

The last time she tried with me she gagged before she got close enough to actually take me in her mouth. And no, my willy doesn't smell. 😃

I am a very clean person, the cleanest man she has ever known, according to her. Yet she still finds the idea repugnant.

I have never pressured her into trying, in fact I have never even suggested it. She has wanted to try because she feels it is unfair that I will go down on her, but she doesn't reciprocate.

I gave up expecting her to try a few years ago, although she does bring it up now and then and apologises for not being able to. I tell her it doesn't matter and to forget about it.

I have accepted that it is never going to happen and leave it at that. Not the end of the world at my age. I have had a very fulfilled sex life over the years, so I have nothing to complain about.

Likewise, my wife has little interest in oral sex. I've done it a few times to her, but there's no way she's willing to reciprocate.

That said, she's done prostate massage on me a bunch of times over the years, which I thoroughly enjoy.

Thanks everyone for the replies.

@Bobbee I would trade receiving oral for a prostate massage any day lol

Yeah I know how yoy feel. My wife loved being eaten out but when it comes to sucking penis it rarely happens. The time I mentioned to her we were newlyweds then we were in the kitchen so she was going to but then that made me feel like I was forcing her to do something she didn't want to do. Although she attempted to give me a bj on our way to work one night bit she fell a sleep after pulling mine out of my coveralls. Also I was driving a manual shift car on a curvy road which made the situation even more difficult. She liked playing with my balls though.

My ex wife gave me oral twice then said she was never doing it again because I didn’t fit in her mouth which was a lame excuse because I’m maybe slightly over average size so I went without but it built resentment