Anticipating Genital Exam

One of the most intense feelings I remember when going to the doctor was if and when the doctor would examine my genitals. This feeling would intensify as the exam progressed. If I was there for a physical, laying down for the abdominal exam would cause extreme nervousness and butterflies in my stomach. I knew that it was only a matter of time before the doctor removed my underwear and examined my genitals. If I was there for a sick visit, I always hoped that I could escape having my genitals examined. This was never the case, and at some point, the doctor would find an excuse to lower my underwear and examine my genitals. How did the feeling of anticipation affect you? Is it something that is integral to your fetish? How do you recreate that feeling when you fantasize or role play?

Like you, I remember those visits to the pediatrician for my yearly physicals. I'd be laying on the table in my underwear wishing the exam would be over soon and inevitably, the doctor would lift up the elastic of my underwear and stick his hand inside and feel my testicles and penis. As I got older, the first time I had to drop my underwear and fully expose my genitals, I was emberassed to say the least. There I was laying on the table with a full blown erection and the doctor feeling my testicles. Even though I was really embarrassed about that experience, I have come to look forward to it every year when I go for my physical.

I so fully agree my friend with going for one's annual exam. The anticipation only adds to the anxiety and wonderment of what is planned. Somehow, there could always be the unexpected. The moment that the doc lifts the waistband and proceeds to lower one's underpants is game on! How will I react to his touch? Will he be quick of focused on the penis and meatus and do a swab? The latter almost always renders the willy soft. The recovery is quick given his palpitating each testicle and with it the area behind my sack until I ama told to stand. All exposed and likely beginning to become erect or some subtle version of one, I stand there legs parted and get evaluated for a hernia. The obligatory coughing as he presses into the inguinal canal. Then step away from the table, bend over, legs parted wide, he feels my spine and spreads my cheeks and does an anal check. Then one hears the ky spreading on his finger and I am told to lean onto the table. "Deep breath," and I feel him pressing fully into me as I sometimes gasp but always clench tightly. Just how deep is he planning to search? Then I feel the pat on my naked cheek and am told, "Here's a tissue." Surely all that happened will replay at home.

Absolutely I loved the anticipation. Usually I’m let down. But every once in a while after finishing the abdominal exam the doctor will say “Okay why don’t you hop up and stand right there and lower your underwear for me”. It’s my absolute favorite thing in the world. That’s why I like play exams to happen in my underwear until that moment

Between 10 and 15 years of age, my genitals were always examined by a pediatrician. My mother always "reminded" the doctor about this examination. At the end of the examination, my underwear was always pulled down, and the doctor examined my penis and testicles.

It was very embarrassing for me because it happened in front of my mother. I felt humiliated, treated like a little child. I knew it would happen and had no illusions that I could avoid it. However, I always hoped my mother wouldn't discuss it with other mothers in the waiting room.

Im always anticipating a genital exam since I get one from my urologist every year. I also get a rectal cause im over 40 as well. I dont mind my urologist being extra thorough cause those parts are very important

My mother always "reminded" the doctor about this examination.

@Reman It must have added an extra layer of embarrassment to have your mother mention it to the doctor at every exam. I know that having my mother and sister in the room made it embarrassing enough. The doctor mentioning it in front of them always heightened my embarrassment. It felt like the doctor was letting everyone know what was about to happen so they could pay extra attention.

After the first visit to my new woman pediatrician at age 9 or 10 and while lying on the table at the end she completely removed my underwear saying lift up your bum and would hand them to my step mother I then knew the exact way exams would go. From that point on every time I was told to lie down for the abdominal exam I knew what was next. I would get very nervous and feel my face redden especially when puberty started and I already had a semi or full erection prior to my underwear being taken off. I hated letting them see and the doctor touch my erect penis and sometimes they would talk about circumcision or masturbation.

I am always shocked by the number of intimate medical exams carried out in other countries. It is not a thing that happens here at all. If I hadn't had foreskin issues growing up, I don't think anyone would have seen my penis until my first girlfriend!

I have never had an examination of my genitals. It was probably not always done. Except for the mandatory medical check-up in 9th grade. But it was just a visual exam, just like for military service. But there was still some apprehension, because I didn’t know if the doctor would look into it in detail rather than a quick overview.

I agree. The anticipation whilemin my underwear continued to grow. Especially when the abdominal exam was being done. My heart would race.waiting for the doctor to tell me to stand or lift my hips.to take my underwear off. Then the first touch of the genital.exam was always intense.

I had my first one with my original doctor all of a sudden he told me to stand up and pull down my pants he needed to check my plumbing, I very hesitantly followed his instructions right in front of my mother I was totally clueless that anything like that was going to happen. I was so embarrassed and dreaded the day it would happen again. I avoided another physical for about 3 years when we moved right around my 13th bday and I had to get a new doctor. My neighbors recommended the dr their daughter went too . My mom made me an appointment with Dr Kerr, it was for a physical that I needed for school because I was from out of state. I wasn’t looking forward to it cause i figured Dr Kerr would be taking a look at my genitals. Hopefully he would keep it quick and I could hopefully go without mom. So I nervously waited for the day to come. It was 2 or three days before my appointment and I am talking to my neighbor and she asks me what I am doing on the next couple days. My mom overheard and says you got a physical with Dr Kerr and my neighbor says right away to me, you are going to like Dr Kerr she is nice. I corrected her back you mean HE is nice, and both her and my mom go no it’s she and I wanted to disappear a little in that moment.

The day came and I prepared for embarrassment, for the first time in years a woman was going to see my penis which was my mom 3 years earlier. The nurse takes me back. My mom follows. I get vitals taken and the dr introduces herself to me and my mom. She ends up asking me if I wanted mom back there which I didn’t and they both left. Back comes the nurse with her clipboard, go ahead and take everything off but your underpants. I was in shock at that command, my old dr didn’t make me undress this much for a physical, and it’s when I pretty much accepted I was getting my penis looked at by the new female dr. I followed the nurses orders as she readied some supply’s for my physical. Had a seat on the exam table and waited for what I knew was coming, my mind on it almost the whole exam because I was embarrassed to bare it at all, puberty still hadn’t visited me there. She started asking me questions about my penis and pubic hair etc, I told her the truth and she finally told me well most of the time boys over exaggerated it being small or behind, finally she said let me take a look go ahead and take off your underwear. At that moment I was already semi hard and standing there naked in front of her and her nurse as she began to examine me the touch gave me an erection. She just kept going, agreed with me that I was behind and we would keep and eye on it, she explained tanner stages and how I hadn’t started, and she would track me using those. Come back in three months to see what’s changed. That started a cycle of anticipation that went on until I went to college.

Reassuring to know other American guys have had similar experiences growing up! Always interested in hearing the stories of others.

I was very nervous for the first few, but from puberty I became more excited than nervous. The last one I had was a cursory feel of the testes, which was disappointing.

The first couple if times at school I was a bit nervous, but as I got more into my teens while I still had butterflies in my tummy I did get excited about it. With all the hormones flying around inside me as a horny teen, I did get excited about having to take off my boxers in front of a female doctor and feeling like I was showing my kit off to her.

My female pediatrician always covered me from the waist down with a paper drape before the genitalia exam. Did anyone else have this experience?

No mine just left my underwear on and then lowered it or pulled out the waistband as needed

I can't let the guys have all the fun here..

For me, I always knew it was coming after the doctor felt my belly, as he worked his way lower and lower... it filled me with both fear, butterflies in my stomach and in later years a little excitement... I really don't get it, even now, why I felt that way, and the touch was completely non sexual... but the thought of someone seeing my vulva, just filled me with both fear, embarrassment, and excitement.

For me it depends on whether the doctor is male or female. If the doctor is a woman, the prospect of lowering my shorts is mildly exciting, even though it’s just another day at the office for her. If the doctor is a man the wait is mildly unpleasant, since I am uncomfortable having my package so closely inspected by another man.