Oral sex gland micro tear

I am a guy. Lately having oral sex and regular sex, my gland to foreskin join tends to has micro-tear. Masturbate with soap in shower also happen. Before it barely has micro-tear.

Any one has same experience or solution?

I have had a somewhat similar issue. There will sometimes be a tear, and raw, open cut between the rim of the head of my penis and the foreskin (FYI -- I'm circumsized). The urologist referred to it as an "adhesion". When this happens it can be painful to masturbate, or be masturbated. Have not figured out a solution to this occasional issue. Curious to read any potential solutions!

Maybe it needs to be surgically snipped so that it doesn't tear in the future?

Are you an older adult, by any chance? I have a similar micro-tear problem my gynecologist says is an unfortunate aspect of aging. Your skin loses collagen and elastin as you age, and both are necessary for the skin to have the amount of stretch you're used to. So manipulating your genitals, alone or with a partner, can cause small tears in places that once stretched with ease. It stings or burns when it happens, and touching it, soaping it, etc. makes it sting all over again.

There's nothing to do about it, alas. "Be gentler," was his advice.

@PinotNoir --- EXACTLY my symptoms....including age!