Exposed anus or parting the cheeks?

Who enjoys a partner to be bent fully over. versus having to spread their cheeks to get an enema nosele inserted?

For me, seeing the clenched butt cheeks, and having to be lubricated and spread, adds to my personal kink.

A lubed finger in and out, then the groans and pleadings of not wanting the enema, raises the bar.

Then the air rushing trough the hose

and sighs, once the clamp is opened, and the receiver's buttom squirms to the solution that I selected amplifies my kinky desires.

Then, the hose.

Seeing one inserted into a tight butt clenched buttocks is heaven, and one that I might ask for after.

Who else likes wide open butts, or ones that make / require you to do something??

I normally start with rectal temperature, having the patient laying on the bed. In that case I open her butt with my hand uncovering the hole and then lube it.

It's a way to make her start feeling some embarrassment.

Then when it comes up to the enema time, I ask her to stay on her 4 with her butt fully open in order to enjoy the nozzle insertion and why not... Having access to her vagina in case I want to masturbate her during the enema!

My therapist always positions me so that my anus is completely exposed and slightly open. I can barely feel the tip of the rectal tube when she starts to insert it...

ROBERT 1100

I can only imagine my butt hole being exposed before getting something that will make me plead for it to stop.

Aren't enemas not only kinky, but sexual ??

@Tim_R

An enema certainly has sexual aspects: for example, the insertion of the rectal tube and the associated stimulation of the prostate.

The insertion of the rectal tube is a crucial point during an enema: once the tube has passed the sphincter, you no longer have any control over what and how much will flow into you; you completely relinquish control to the person administering the enema.

Being on the receiver end is always the worst, or the better for me, depending on their attitude. A pissed off giver, which I can attest to, can make you feel miserable, to where you say to yourself, never again.

Then another who gives you one so gratifying and sexual, that you'd allow it to happen again and again.

Just my opinion.

@Tim_R

I'm totally on your side: for me, it was the very first enema I received in the hospital from an

Asian nurse, administered with such love and sensitivity that I wished: I hope this never ends! -

Since then, I've been hooked on enemas...

As a grateful receiver, I love the prelude to an enema to be gentle, slow, and worthy of being savored. Facing away from my giver makes things more of a surprise and increases the anticipation and my focus on the sensations that follow.

Feeling him briefly lift my cheek to expose my anus is electrifying, as I can know what will come next is the slow penetration of his lubricated finger, a sensation I don’t quite want to end. Yet end it does, leaving me craving the nozzle and warm water I know are coming next.

As a grateful receiver, I love the prelude to an enema to be gentle, slow, and worthy of being savored. Facing away from my giver makes things more of a surprise and increases the anticipation and my focus on the sensations that follow.

Feeling him briefly lift my cheek to expose my anus is electrifying, as I can know what will come next is the slow penetration of his lubricated finger, a sensation I don’t quite want to end. Yet end it does, leaving me craving the nozzle and warm water I know are coming next.

- very nice and also readable description !! - simple word's, but true, also for the administrator !!

I love the response of 4711koein.

I also would like to tell you my grandparents were born in Germany!

I love the response of 4711koein.

I also would like to tell you my grandparents were born in Germany!

- many thanks " for the flower's " !! - by looking as your mentioned age, please allow me the question - why and how your parent's have changed the countries ?? - maybe as a result of the " second world war ?? - and are you be able to have some talk with your grandparents - may she rest in peace -, about their times in germany ??

I have a wonderful exciting memory around this. Once upon a time I had an enemate that I was able to meet multiple times for long, gratifying give and take enema sessions. I will never forget the first time he was on all fours naked on the bed. I was behind him. I reached out and spread his cheeks and looked at his anus. It clenched in reaction to being exposed. So hot.

Love both, as a giver, being offered a spread open anus signify complete trust and it is all your to do as you please....still the finger will go in, the nozzle will follow.... when you have to open it, with your fingers to have access, it instaurates an intimate relationship..... as a receiver I like to offer myself boldly, as I'm an exhibitionist, that is understandable, love to be totally exposed....but also enjoy the delicate opening and the rest that follows, the relationship with the giver, it's what makes the difference....

Sometimes the receiver is reluctant, or maybe taking the enema just because she knows you like doing it to her, but if she is in the knee-chest position and spreading her cheeks for you that signals 100% acceptance and she is ready to do it. It is a beautiful sight. Second best is with her on her back, knees pulled back to her chest leaving everything exposed.

This form of exposure is a recurring theme here. I posted in another thread that referred to it as an additional form of punishment. As a woman, I think of it as probably the most invasive and intrusive form of exposure.

Fifteen years ago, I had my first rectal exam by a proctologist and was placed on a type of examining table where I knelt on a ledge with my upper torso on a padded examining table. The ledge was adjustable and could be moved vertically. A perforated sheet was placed over my bare posterior by the nurse who prepared me for the exam. The doctor entered, took a seat behind me on a mobile chair, and adjusted the height of the ledge. He then separated the paper cover, exposing my divide and, of course, my anus. It wasn’t the most pleasant position I have ever been in. But when he asked the nurse for what he referred to as an anus wipe, I was embarrassed to no end. I was prepared for the finger up my anal cavity, but not for the pre-cleaning of my anus. To this day, I don’t know if he thought my anus was dirty (I had showered that morning) or if it was just standard procedure.

Ddell2 - for sure there are " two pairs of shoes ", undergoing this procedure in " real medical need ", or doing it in a " play session " !!

Exposed for me. I love it when the cheeks are spread for me and the other person presents their anus to me. They know I want to experience it, and that it turns me on and are giving it to me for both our pleasure.