What should I expect from a Brazilian Wax?

I was told that I need to get a Brazilian wax.

My appointment is booked and paid for, I am expected to show up and get it done.

I’ve never been waxed before, and as a trans man there is an extra layer of shame showing my body to a stranger.

This is a punishment, we have discussed no meds, no trimming, and maybe even a coffee before 😭

It’s still over a week away and my hair averages about half an inch already so I know it’ll be really long in another week. It’s also naturally dark and thick…

I keep watching reaction videos and am so nervous about trying to stay stoic through such painful and humiliating time

What should I expect?? Which part hurts the most?? The dread is part of my punishment.

(( Yes it’s consensual, yes waxer is trans friendly, yes I will be behaving professionally and not involving outsider ))

Um. A friend of mine some years back got what I believe is a Brazillian wax, basically all of her pubes removed just leaving a small strip above her vagina. Problem was it caused so much irritation she was on antihistamines & all sorts until the inflammation died down...

I used to get Brazilian waxes regularly when I was married. It is painful but it's quick and it will be over before you know it.

The waxer will make you take off your pants and underwear, and lie down in frog leg position (at least that's how it's done for me). The first thing you feel is how hot the wax is. Just like if someone is spreading hot lotion on you. It's not too painful at first. Then you get a little break until the wax gets hard. The waxer will ask you to take deep breaths and will pull a strip of wax. It's really painful but it passes. The key is breathing through it. The waxer usually applies pressure with her hand in the area right after she pulls the wax and that helps a lot.

Once it's done in the front she will ask you to turn around and spread your cheeks. This part doesn't hurt. Then you'll be done and the waxer will put some cooling gel all over and it feels so good.

The feeling of the underwear on a freshly waxed skin is so good.

I know it's a punishment and it is painful but it will be over before you know it. Feel free to send me a private message if you have any questions

😃 to show everyone how innocent I am, or was, (many years ago) I thought that a 'Brazillian' was someone that lived in Brazil. 😃 regards, irrigator333

I waxed myself with a kit from Amazon probably 20 years ago. I took off everything: front, back, scrotum, penis. It hurt a little but wasn't that bad and my skin ended up extremely soft. My girlfriend just loved it, couldn't keep her hands off of me. I did get a little chafing though, so used a little baby powder. I've been tempted to go for a professional waxing just for kicks. I think there's just one salon in town that does men. Just never got around to it.

It sounds to me like you're scaring yourself over something that will cause momentary pain, which is going to make that pain seem worse.

Having taken natural childbirth classes (and delivered a baby over ten pounds without drugs [takes a bow]), I know that believing something will be unbearably painful guarantees it will be. Instead, focus more on "I can handle this" and "people do this all the time, no biggie" and you'll be better prepared for the actual event. Will it hurt for an instant as the waxer pulls it off? Yes. Can you handle it? Of course you can. As punishments go, it's not severe.

Consider, too, that people getting tattoos--and so, so many people have ink!--experience much more pain than this is going to be. It's good to have a basis of comparison.