Ladies: The DECISION to have sex for the first time

Hi Ladies,

I’m curious to know what prompted each one of you to decide to have sex for the first time in your lives.

Did something prompt it, like a film or a story you read? Sex Ed class?

Maybe it was based experiences you heard from your friends?

Or maybe it just happened.

I’m sure every experience is different!

I had sex with my female best friend a little over a month ago she basically seduced me I had sex with a man shortly after he is gorgeous taller than me which is hard to find as I'm 6'5.

You should visit the Netherlands, @brokenthoughts—your chances of finding men taller than you would probably be the best there! 😄

I had sex with my female best friend a little over a month ago she basically seduced me I had sex with a man shortly after he is gorgeous taller than me which is hard to find as I'm 6'5.

You seduced me first. walking by in tight ripped jeans,like a redneck goth dream. flannel jeans ivory skin, obsidian hair. Be fair you started it.

The first time I had sex wasn’t something I had planned—it just happened.

I was usually hanging out with my friend, who was dating a guy. His friend, Jim, was almost always with him. Before long, my friend and her boyfriend would slip away, leaving Jim and me alone together. I wasn’t really interested in him, but we ended up spending a lot of time around each other.

One night, Jim was driving me around when he pulled over behind his house. He pulled out a bottle of whiskey, and we each took a couple of shots. As we talked, the mood changed. We started kissing, and things quickly became more intimate. Before I knew it, we were having sex in the front seat of his truck.

It wasn’t something I had expected or planned, but it became an experience I would always remember as my first time.

When I had sex for the first time it did not just happen. I had got my man who I had wanted, I was seeing Him a lot and we were getting closer all the time and we planned when we would have sex. It was a really wonderful afternoon in the summer for me. ❤️ And I got married to Him 8 years later. 🌹 🌹 🌹

I was 22, met him in a club, 3 weeks later he went on a journey to Spain and after he returned I lost my virginity to him on a Good Friday. While he was far away I carefully planned purchasing contraceptives.

It was the last week of high school and we were to graduate on that Wednesday night. My current boyfriend and I both got talking and decided that it would not be so cool if we were to graduate still being virgins. With no other planning we just did it, it was quick and nowhere near the passion that everyone hopes for. Also, it was unprotected so I was a nervous wreck until I got my period that month. I vowed to never do that again.

It wasn't planned, it just happened. We where just kissing when one thing lead to another. Before it went to far we stopped to get condoms. We got the condoms, a local motel room. Nothing was said during the whole time. We just let it happen naturally, emotionally and physically. We both lost our virginity that unforgettable amazing night.

I was scared by the idea of penetration and it took me a while to agree to my first gf doing it. We planned I'd wear joggers so she could easily put her hand down there and use one finger without looking. On the evening she pulled my joggers down suddenly exposing me and I tried to cover myself but she said not to as she'd already seen it so I moved my hands. She ran her index finger up my slit and told me she was going inside here and pulled my labia back and looked then put her big tongue on my clitoris and I instantly forgave her for exposing me! She pulled away and said she would now finger my vagina with 2 fingers not 1 as I needed to be broken in and stretched. My plan was lying in a comfortable bed kissing with one finger inside, and thinking it didn't hurt as much as I thought it might! the reality was standing with joggers round my ankles, hips projecting forward and legs bowed while 2 fingers were forced painfully up my vagina! Her tongue found my clitoris again and I had my first orgasm with another person. I was sore for about 5 days afterwards.