Quote]You do what you feel comfortable doing. There's no such thing as right and wrong with any kind of sex- gay of straight[/quote]
I totally agree with the previous post.
Long story short : Speaking as a trans woman that once was a straight male. So I understand how somethings are good while others are not.
It's like try anything new the first time. Your inexperienced, unsure, uncomfortable and so on. You need to be patient and keep trying, learn what works and change what didn't.
The worst thing is getting frustrated and giving up. I did when I first started crossdressing. I was expecting it to be perfect, I gave up and threw everything away at first.
Instead of giving up, make changes to improve the issue. Ask for help and guidance from Zity members. There are many members that have experience and may share with you.
Just do some research and reach out to them in a RESPECTFUL MANNER. I've done this so many times, I've learned the most by reaching out. Also became great friends with them.
Don't expect for everything to happen overnight and be perfect. Stay positive and moving forward. Just like the old saying, live and learn as you go.