Painful enemas. Why?

Hello, this topic may have been brought up before... I'd like to talk about painful enemas, or more specifically, about people who regularly have them and endure them to the end, tormenting themselves with terrible stomach pain... As a child, I saw my older cousin, groaning and continuing to pour water into herself without stopping, despite the fact that she was moaning with terrible stomach pain, on all fours. Back then, I really liked it, but as an adult, I wondered: if it really hurts, and you've already poured enough water, then why do you endure it and not stop the procedure for at least a couple of minutes? As a child, I also had very painful enemas that I had no control over... I'm not judging, an enema can probably be pleasant (I never give myself one), but I'm talking specifically about painful enemas for those who do them, and why you do it to the end, even when the pain from stomach cramps becomes unbearable... I'm just curious.

I cannot recall having a single painful enema. On very rare occassions, I have had momentary slight cramps that go away as quickly as they come and were only slight uncomfortable. But Brett makes a good point.........why continue an enema if it is really painful? Your body is telling you something is terribly wrong and if it happened to me, I sure would not continue the enema. It might also be advisable for those who experience pain during an enema to seeka medical opinion and advice. Denise

Why love some people to be caned?

Why love some people to be caned?

What he said,

That being said, define painfull, The really sharp-stinging pain is usually a signal you're doing it wrong when it comes to enemas and other invasive forms of play.

Cramp-inducing and enemas that make you "Struggle" to hold out etc, thats very much just another, more niche form of masochism

Caning just causes superficial temporary damage to the skin tissues.

Excessive enemas destroys the fundamental way our digestive system works. It is good that they can be painful as pain is an indicator that something medically is wrong !

I've met a lot of people into pain, they love, they crave, they want more.... I give them some, then I refrain not wanting to cause damage...

In all things the extreme can be dangerous, specially for the ones that like to push it further, get that extra adrenaline going....

enemas, like every other pleasure, can be pushed to extremes.... in type, time, quantity... as giver/taker, I always refuse to give in to that...is the same as saying to to another drink....

When my Mom gave me enemas when I was a kid they usually caused painful cramps as the hot soapy water flowed in and filled up my bowels. She just told me to take slow deep breaths through my mouth to ease the cramping and wouldn't stop the flow, no matter how much I cried and complained that it was hurting me, until I'd taken the full amount. I gradually came to expect that and tried to co-operate as I got into my pre-teen, teenage and young adult years but I still didn't like getting them. When I moved out on my own in my mid-20's I started getting badly constipated and started resorting to giving myself hot soapsuds enemas when I found that laxatives and suppositories either didn't do the job or interfered with my life as a High School teacher causing frequent trips to the washroom as they continued working on me during my working day. Hot soapsuds enemas got me going and didn't cause any lingering after effects so I would take one if I'd gone several days without a bowel movement and just use a good big dose of laxative if I got constipated on weekends when I was at home. I made sure I stopped the flow if I got any cramping and then I'd restart it after the cramp had passed, not like my Mom who continued the flow regardless of my complaints. All told I found that enemas weren't as bad as those my Mom gave me when I was a kid.

Good question.

I‘m an enjoyer of enemas which creates heavy, tummy aching cramps and the following urgency which makes it hard to hold.

Also with laxatives, that‘s why I like to add bisacodyl (dulcolax) in an enema. It‘s a good combination.

The uncomfortabler, the better. It‘s best, when I regret doing this.

It‘s some kind of masochism, i think, but it feels great, when it‘s over. Maybe it‘s some kind of self harm, like others tend to scratch themselves. Maybe there are other reasons, but i didn‘t find them so far. 😉

I also add some Bisacodyl to my girlfriend's enemas from time to time and she does to mine. They are not large in quantity but certainly effective. In a knee chest position, she inserts a super plus tampon into my anus and I into hers and then we sit on hard wooden chairs and see who can hold out the longest. The loser submits to an enema of the winner's choosing recipe, quantity and type of syringe as well as retention time. A six or eight ounce bulb syringe is used to give surprise m and m or Mayo enemas with the recipient thinking it's just a water enema at first until the tummy starts gurgling from the gas the enema produces

I remember the first enema that I received from a nurse who apologized and said she was going to make me uncomfortable so I would feel better. I was constipated from an excess of pain medication at home following multiple surgeries.

The enema was uncomfortable, so much so that I started to cry from the cramps. But the warm water with some mild soap did what it was supposed to. It took a few minutes on the toilet, but getting what felt like rock hard poop out of me was a godsend. The feeling of relief was incredible.

What happened next, however, changed my tears into unexpected sensuous pleasure. Nurse Angie, who I have written about many times, coaxed me into a second enema about an hour later.

There was more to come out of me, but this time it was so easy and painless. Some mild cramps, but so much different than the first enema. I began to feel a tingling sensation that grew during the enema, and I nearly went over the edge.

Still, not all enemas are made in heaven. Some can be uncomfortable, even painful, depending on what’s happening inside us. We’re all different.

I was embarrassed at first, but this wonderful nurse knew what I was feeling, and quietly told me not to worry, it was normal, and to “just go with it.” I was just 22 at the time, and it was a life changer.

I've been getting soapy enemas every week since I was 10 years old.

My father says that a good enema should be felt, it should cause cramps, otherwise it’s useless, especially for discipline. He also says that the role of soap is to clean, and this can sometimes be uncomfortable but necessary. So, the enemas I receive are VERY soapy and can really be felt, just the way my father likes them.

I am not into painful enemas, for myself or others. I get enemas fairly often and a lot of mine are for actual constipation problems that I have had for most of my life. But I do get arousal and often sexual release with most of my enemas.

I don't mind a little discomfort, but that's when I usually stop. Sometimes if I'm backed up pretty bad I hit the discomfort state sooner. When that happens I will stop and release the water and whatever stool I can, then will resume filling with a full topped off bag. When I have 'room for it,' I can generally take a full 2qt. bag without much problem.

I am fortunate that I grew into liking enemas, that hadn't always been the case. I am however not into causing myself or others pain.

Pain does nothing for me, but I accept that during a fill I may experience some cramping. The answer to that is easy - stop the flow, breath (pant like a puppy), relax and then start again.

Twinkling Granny Sue used to hold my hand to help me through a cramp when she was filling me during a colonic. Ms J, my new therapist, is so skillful that you would never know you had water flowing in, yet she removes huge quantities of stool, mucus and gas. She definitely achieves her goal of cleansing from rectum to cecum!