Just something i thought about.....

I was reading one of the stories, and it mentioned how his or her(it was first person) mom every time they wet the bed would say "Your still not a Big Kid Now"...

Now, im not a bedwetter, but, as a late potty trainer, i heard that phrase for years, my mom would say it all the time...and even as a Diaper Lover now, it bothers me, gives me a sort of sinking feeling, you know?

Anyway, I was just wondering if any of you just really hate that Commercial/Slogan like i do....

It seems to me that our parents set a goal for us , that is " Grow up" and our whole society is based on it. So I guess we are stuck with hearing it for ever more.

Well, I was born long before that phrase became popular, there were no disposable pull ups. But, things still being the same. I heard things like, "do I have to put you in a diaper like a baby?", "do I have to change you like a baby?", "Do I have to put you in plastic pants?" It all works out the same, no matter what phraseology is used, or popular for the time.

The commercials don't help those of us that have to wear. They all make is seem that only babies or what they call old people are suppose to wear diapers. Anyone that is in between must be sick in their heads. I wish that the AD companies would come up with good diaper Ads showing and explaining that it's not wrong having to wear diapers at any age.

We're told as very young children that being more mature is life's primary goal.

Can you do me a big-boy favor?

Stop acting like a baby.

Act your age.

Shh, the grownups are talking.

Stuff like that gets drilled into our heads when we're kids. I guess that's why age regression is a popular subject of study and fascination. That slogan is a part of that "kids want to be grown up" mindset.

It true, maturity is the goal and the up bringing we have and are taught. Maturity is a great thing, But I believe parents have to be carefull on there approach, my dad was a real jerk growing up calling me names physically beating me, I was his punching bag for years.

The names still run through my head as a banner screening from left to right. I can however choose to overcome and fullfill my own lifegoals if I choose to overcome.