Any tips for Prostate Orgasms?

Ok, so, I've definitely dabbled in some taint massages and some anal play... But I've become very aware of Prostate milking or rather the idea of a very intense Prostate orgasm. I bought a toy specifically for that and... I don't think its hitting the spot haha my fingers seem to find the spot, but it's pretty taxing getting in and up there alone hahah

Any tips, I'd be grateful

I have the same issue. I want it be done to me not by be. So I needs tips for a good toy as same issue.

I, at one point, felt like I almost had one, but I couldn't tell, so I definitely like to see more tips