Oh, I just love my glass wand!
I can gently stroke or tap or press or wiggle on my button.... the sensations are incredible! My prostate milk oozes out as the intensity builds up waves, and when i hold a peak it squirts a little rope of thin, liquid, milky white juice, then I ease off.... sometimes I scoop it up and put it in my mouth. It is so sweet and velvety!
Over and over i raise those electric, buzzing, tingly, pressure waves with my soft, gentle, precise manipulation of my gland with the toy. When i can settle in and ride a peak, it feels that I'm gonna expel something and it's gonna send me to the moon....pee or cum maybe, but really it feels like I'm riding pure bliss and the energy it feels like I'm gonna expel raises up into and through my body. If i just relax and keep the gentle rhythm going I stay in that state until I can't take it anymore, and ease off.... then go again.
The key, for me, is relaxation, acceptance, and not trying. Not trying to have orgasm, or an imagined feeling. Accepting what ever sensations happen, actually being there to feel them and appreciating them. Holding any arising tension in the button, not chasing orgasm or pleasure.
We often get in frenzy, and want to reach climax, we want RELEASE! And the more it eludes us the more we try, the more we squeeze, the harder we fuck or wank, the more tension we force into our muscles to build intensity so we can release it. This frenzied, lustful, forced, 'I'm gonna get mine' approach is the very thing blocking bliss.
Safe space with an attitude of childlike curiosity. Set your expectations, opinions and neediness aside. Come into your senses. Hold any arising tension in a piont at the interior root of your lingam (cock), relax everything else, everything. Allow pleasure, if it comes, to rise up and then throughout your body. Accept whatever comes.