Accompany to Play Examination

Dear all,

Do you (especially playdoctors of all genders) have any experience of your patient being accompanied during a play examination by a third person (particularly their partner), who then also attends the examination and watches – perhaps out of jealousy or curiosity? Do you have any preferences or rules regarding whether you agree to this or how you deal with it? 😃

I do full physical on wives as the husband watches. He is seated next to me so that he gets a full view of what I'm doing at all times. when i start the exam I do a rectal temperature with the patient bent over the table lookin at her husband as i stand behind her and watch his expression. I like to put the rubber gloves on with a snap to get everyone's attention

That sounds like a fun variation! I have not experienced this though no. I suppose it must depend greatly on whether the partner is excited to be there or sort of just along for the ride.

I have never conducted a group exam or an exam where a partner/chaperone watches. I would not mind if I had audience or a group exam.

Have fantasized about certain people being present. Not sure this will ever happen.

Whenever I give my sub her Well Woman examination, her husband is always in attendance and often helps.

Recurring fantasy: a Pre-employment Insurance Physical is watched by 1) a Company Board officer who is required to witness the exam, & does so with great interest & a smirk on his face throughout, or 2) watched by the soon-to-be Boss of the employment candidate who's been invited by the Insurance Doc conducting, offering no choice or say about it to the embarrassed exam subject. In these fantasy voyeuristic scenarios the exam subject is forced into exhibitionism he or she would not otherwise choose, with the Insurance Doctor & the grinning Observer treating the situation in the most casual way. Needless to say, this Insurance Physical would require a thorough examination of the genitals & anus.

Having the husband in the exam room alone with his wife as she disrobes and puts on the little paper gown Than sits on the exam table waiting for me , I'm told is very erotic for both husband and wife. I always do a rectal temperature with her bent over the table looking at him sitting in a chair on the other side of the exam table. I love for them to have eye contact and I enjoy his expression as I lube her splinter before the thermometer goes in nice and slow