New to anal play

About two months ago I accidentally discovered that I enjoy enemas and have been doing them every few days. I’m naturally pretty tight and usually use a small 20 fr rubber catheter. I think I’d really enjoy some anal play though, and I’d like to gradually work on stretching to eventually comfortably take larger enema nozzles and other accessories.

I tried a small butt plug, and with plenty of lube I can get it in, but I can only keep it in for a few minutes before it becomes painful. Are there any techniques, toys, or routines that help make the process easier and more enjoyable?

Repetition Sweetie a little at at a time if you tear down there its called Hemeroids not where you want to go

Just take your time get comfy then next step up you can't have intercourse with a hard nozzle in your rectum only the soft tubes no more the 3 inches in, measure put a peice of tape on the tube so you feel it and it won't go in you

@CuriousNewbie, you might try using a small vibrator to help relax the anal sphincter prior to inserting the enema nozzle. Of course, this could lead to other forms of anal erotica. Also, remember to use plenty of lubricant when inserting anything into the anus. Enjoy . . .

There are anal dilators you can get @CuriousNewbie . Start small and slow and use lots of lube.

The anus is naturally tighter than the vagina. If you do not want sodomy, there's no need to try to loosen and dilate your anus. Of course, if that's what you're considering, it's a good idea, but it's best to do it very gradually and slowly.

@higginsb tearing is not called a hemorrhoid. A fissure would be a much closer term.

Usually, the painful part of playing with a butt plug is the initial insertion. After you get it in, it should become more comfortable and then start feeling good rather than bad. I think you need to remove it, take a break for a few minutes and then try again. Hopefully if you can get pretty aroused in your normal way and then try moving the plug a little you will get used to it, and it will probably become the main event.

Thank you for all of the suggestions. I’ll order a set of dilators and start working on things slowly and regularly. Is there a limit to how long one can wear a butt plug?

When it gets uncomfortable, take it out.

@masterkinkster is spot on I have tearing from large and hard bowel movements,I use medication from a compounding pharmacy basically sterile petroleum jelly with a medication mixed in that relaxes my anal sphincter and prevents the tearing ,I also do have hemorrhoids so occasionally there will be blood spots in my diaper .

@CuriousNewbie I am not sure there is any really good data on the time one can wear a plug. I have actually given this some thought over the years, There are people who wear them long term and long hours. But I have to wonder if that is causing damage to the rectal tissue. The pressure from the plug would reduce or cut off some blood supply, then again it may be no different than being constipated which is mostly uncomfortable though chronic constipation likely causes hemorrhoids and other issues. I would do some google searching and look for some good solid medical literature on the topic if you can find it, otherwise see what you can find on chronic constipation.

Use the plug as lon as it feel comfortable.

I started with small plugs and an inflatable anal ballon. The ballon is small on insertion and could be inflated as you like it.

Use it for your pleasure, not for others. We all know that there a those bigger, longer and so on toys. Go with the sizes you like