Enema mood comes and goes

My enema mood comes and goes. When I'm in the mood I'll have a enema at least once a week or more. I'll even plane a whole day around having a series of enemas. When I'm not in the mood I might go 6 months to the longest as 2 years. But mostly 6 months or shorter without an enema. Am I the only one like this? During my downtime from enemas I'll still read up into it and read stories.

I think a great many people find their libido, along with their interest in the kinkier activities, waxes and wanes unless they feed it.

Clearly some people feed it by coming here. Others look at or read fetish materials. Of course some people just use their imaginations and fantasize.

And those who do not feed it aren't doing anything wrong. It's fine to let the interest come when it comes and not worry about it the rest of the time.

My enema mood comes on when I'm with someone that turns the switch on...I do not do solos, so very seldom I may get the "want" without some kind of external stimulation..it may come from a chat, a conversation or writing in a forum like zity....in this moment I would say yes to anyone that asks....

My mood comes most when I'm talking with Tess about our antics on grand pap's farm in WV either treating each other "down at the creek" or "out behind the barn" (see Little Jimmy Dickin's song out behind the barn) or watching our two younger sisters getting enemas. Tess has helped with many memories about watching Diane and Robin and each other while enemas were administrated, always in the upstairs bathroom where every enema we know of were administered. Once Tess or I was aware that someone was going to get an enema we went out a bedroom window onto the porch roof that went most of the way around the house where we could watch the entire procedure from outside the bathroom window. As enemas were almost always done at or near bedtime the darkness kept us unseen. Then there were times someone got an enema during the day and if we were playing in the back yard we could see the bag hung on the hook next to the window, and hear the recipient begging and complaining that they didn't need or want an enema. The administrator always sat on the window seat and took the nozzle from the top of the bag and though we didn't see the Vaseline being applied we knew that was being done. At this time we could hear either Diane or Robin saying something like "no please" or "I don't want it" then the administrator reaching for the steel clamp and the familiar CLICK! Then watching the bulge go flat hearing "that's enough, I have to go"! knowing what they were feeling, then waiting the five minutes until the timer DING and the recipient jumped up and leaped to the toilet, then the release. It doesn't take much to trigger the mood, sometimes seeing a hot water bag in something on TV, I start wondering it there was a hose attachment that someone got hosed with.

That's why I'm still LostInThe50s!

Marty

My mood for an enema comes and goes but it comes right back. It is a chronic condition that I can't seem to overcome!! lol. Denise

Like @Denise, my moods come and go, but I’m delighted that sometimes moods occur unexpectedly.

On the Memorial Day holiday, my husband, daughter and son-in-law drove over to the (Oregon) coast. I wanted to be alone for a while after a very busy week. When I get the blahs, I get the urge to dust and vacuum the house. I needed to change the sheets on our bed. They are kept our linen closet where I also have my enema bag.

We’ve often been reminded that our brain is connected to our G.I. system. Suddenly, my mood returned. After I made the bed, I retired to our master bathroom, turned on la cassette with my favorite Debussy “La Mer” and took a warm, relaxing enema with a pinch of J&J soap that felt absolutely heavenly. I was shocked with what all released out of me. I lay down for a couple hours and slept.

I had not had an enema since Easter morning when I wasn’t feeling well. My mood unexpectedly got the best of me. My daughter could tell the difference when she got home. She didn’t have to see my syringe hanging in the shower to dry. She knew right away that I had taken an enema, and it really helped me out of my blahs.

@Vicki_V

The word "blahs" tends to be a very apt description of how we feel at times. Years ago I would get the blahs with my period. That's no longer the case, but that doesn't mean that I don't get the blahs from time to time. I think of it as a time of having little to no motivation, perhaps being a bit moody, or maybe a letdown after a big event such as a holiday. Like you, I find that some "me time" especially with taking a good enema (there's mom's description again!) is the perfect antidote.

That "enema mood" or fluctuations, may well be related to the Vagus Nerve or the "gut/brain axis" that we hear about on an occasional basis.

Coffee enemas are said to stimulate the Vagus nerve, as well as other modalities. Any enema, to a lesser degree, can also stimulate this network.

I am no doctor, but my inclinations to take an enema, may well stimulate this nerve. The result is often a sense of euphoria or at least some improvement in digestion and even libido.

You might say, the desire cums, and then goes! 😃

Of late there is hardly a day that passes by that my kinky ol brain doesn't check in with the message, "We should just chuck this work project, and have ourselves a nice warm enema"

That said, there are many times in the past I've gone months or longer without the thought of an enema. Some of those times have followed a pattern I've heard often repeated here on Zity.

I became ______ with my enema kink and threw away all the equipment/evidence. You can fill in the blank with any number of similar reasons, ashamed, guilty, embarrassed, fearful of discovery etc. There are lots of others all revolving around the thought that somehow enemas are bad, and our peers would think us horrible people if we allowed them to know our actual enjoyment of the process.

Something, probably the memory of the pure physical enjoyment, leads us back and the cycle starts over. I find zity to be pretty good medicine in preventing that come and go cycle. I've learned that most folks here don't think my enjoyment of a recreational enema makes me a bad person. Also, I find most of them lead perfectly normal lives around their enema interests.

So yes, over time, interest waxes and wanes, but at the present moment I think I am getting a message from that brain thing up there.. "Lets chuck this discusssion and have ourselves...... "

I guess I take enemas too often to allow any "blahs" to build up. However, I completely understand the feelings described here by others as I have the most wonderful feeling that "all is right with the world" after a good enema session(s) and the release of "tensions" that a good enema can trigger. Denise.

Denise paints a Rembrandt for a lot of us. My emate was killed in a traffic accident, and I mourned for her to the exclusion of having the hots for mostly anything. Eventually, I realized that she enjoyed the "us" times so much that I'd better send her some. It felt just like old times, and though I've never taken so many enemas since, the ones I dedicated to her were spectacular.

Thanks, Denise

Like Denise and Vicki, my enema mind comes and go. I enjoy my enemas, but after a few sessions, the desire for them just flows away. It can take three or four weeks (not 6 months!) before I crave again for getting one. The idea just comes back with no special reason, sometimes just by chance. Last Saturday, I was like in Vicki's story left alone in my house and I got out of bed to take my breakfast. As I was drinking a cup of coffee, I felt the warm liquid slowly pouring in my throat and it gave me the idea of having warm a soapy water pouring in my bowels. So, as I was alone, with nobody around, I went back in my bedroom and started a new session again.

I’m in the same boat as the TS. I’d like to have regular enemas, but as I mentioned, I don’t have a steady dominant partner atm to enforce them regardless of my mood, this is something I need as a submissive. Plus, there are all the usual life commitments, work etc. Sometimes I just don’t have the energy for it all (like many adults...).

I probably need strict external control and a firm hand to give my ass the thorough, focused attention it needs.

Pity you live so far away @SubHelena . Just saying. 😃