Enemas for older men

I am 82, and disabled. So that means I have a really hard time to take an enema. Can’t lay on the bed because I can’t hold the enema. Makes a big mess. Tried sitting on the toilet but nozzle keeps falling out. My girlfriend has tried to help but it doesn’t work. Suppositories do work but not like a regular enema. Tonight I had my girlfriend using a bulb syringe give me a mineral oil enema, which I took laying down and was able to hold it for a while. It does work but again not like a SSE. Was given antibiotics and prednisone for a lung problem. This has caused my bad constipation. Will use the mineral oil in a couple of days. Hopefully getting me regular again. Any suggestions to help me out better would be appreciated. Black wolf out.

@Blackwolf, you might try using an inflatable catheter (24fr or larger) while sitting on the toilet. Insert it and expand the balloon before getting on the toilet, take the enema, then when you feel the need to expel, release the balloon and let it fall out. Good luck.