Breast Self-examination

Ladies, do you examine your breasts yourself or prefer your husband / boyfriend to do it for you? Why?

Gentlemen, does your wife / girlfriend examine her breasts herself or prefer you to do for her? Why?

My girlfiends have always ben happy for me to do their regular breast exam for them. Needless to say it often lead to other things...

I do self breast examinations on myself regularly, but i am always happy to let my husband help. 😉

Kim, does your husband get involved in any other part of your medfet or is he unaware?

Yes Stethdoctor, he has accompanied a couple of time to my gyn exam, and we have also used the exam scenario as foreplay.

I always do mine myself, but every once in a while, my boyfriend like to help =)

I do them myself in the shower, but if my bf would want to help he would be more than welcome 😉

As a man I would like to help but I also like the girl to do some of her own self exams. This double checking ensures that very little is missed by either of us.

I do mine myself, as i am not in a relationship currently. i would certainly let my partner do my monthly self checks though, would be a great intro to a more detailed play exam 😉

I like to examine my wife's breasts monthly for her, and I also enjoy watching her do it herself.

My girlfriend gets anxious if she do it so she ask me to do it

My bf examines my breasts at least once a week. Usually as a prelude to an exam. He does a good job because he was taught by my doctor what to do and what to look for. It is also very erotic.

BTW when the doctor (real or play) squeezes the nipples, he is not looking for milk, but any other type of discharge. He will only get milk from a lactating mother.

I enjoy examining my fiance's breasts on a regular basis. I get so turned on as the nipples go from soft to erect right before my eyes. After examining them with my hands, I like to conclude by examining them with my mouth. Her breasts are plump, yet perky, and look so good when she doesn't wear a bra under her shirt.

I do my own exams. I have been very lucky due to two scares of breast cancer. I found out it was begian and it was only an ulceration. But ladies it is very important to exam or have someone else exam your breast at least once a month.

I always ask my partner to chek my breasts for me, not only because I truely dislike doing it - I get nervous on finding irregular fabric - but also because it realy turns me and him on. For me is a perfect start for some very exciting moments

I do my own, but I would love it if my boyfriend wanted to help.

Just ask him! Its not that weird. I know a lot of women out of medfet that simply cannot do that by themselves and ask boyfriends to do it. I´m sure he will love it! Its all about extent the knowledge about your both bodies, you can trade it with a deep penis palpation, I´m sure he won´t refuse.

My partner has given me the responsibility of checking her breasts on a monthly basis. She told her doctor that she did not do self exams but would insist that I check her every month. I take my responsibilities very seriously. I have watched numerous instructional videos and "feel" that I can administer a through exam.

Examining a ladies breasts is the least you can do for her! A medical and a personal service. Great foreplay too. 😄

One of my early girlfriends at university liked me to examine her breasts, which I found a little disconcerting to start with as all I wanted to do was start kissing them (!) Her mum had had a cancer scare, but it did turn her on as well. Needless to say the examination usually turned into a more gynaecological and informal one in due course!

I have always had a fantasy about having a female friend of mine ask if I would give her a breast exam. And for me to be able to then possibly have a look at her vagina, maybe not a full scale pelvic but to have her just take her panties down and let me spread the labia for a quick peek.

I have always had a fantasy about having a female friend of mine ask if I would give her a breast exam. And for me to be able to then possibly have a look at her vagina, maybe not a full scale pelvic but to have her just take her panties down and let me spread the labia for a quick peek.

very simple but very hot fantasy, why don't you start telling a friend that you are an expert and that you would like to practice in other woman than you and that you are really curious about feeling her breast tissue...

With all due respect Amaral that’s not as easy as it sounds.

My advice to cal1082 would be to ask your friend to check you and then see if she’s interested in you returning the service. It’s not clear from your profile if you’re bi or just curious.

If you want some tips and suggestions e-mail me (I’m in the book—profile). I’ve done these kinds of things once or twice—LOL

Jackie

Jw it's obvious!

My advice to cal1082 would be to ask your friend to check you and then see if she's interested in you returning the service.

you're a genius! and me carryed by some erotical enthusiasm was not seeing it clearly. I think that deserves a karma and not for me but I'll also give you one because of this.

You keep standing there watching and talking and when you talk your maturity knowledge mixed with your subtle sense of humour makes this forum a much more rich place!

In answer to the original question, I have to say that it's not very often that I do a breast self-examination. The main reason for this is that I just plain tend to forget to do it at the optimum time recommended. This is generally stated as being the time right after one's period is over, which is when the breasts are at their least engorged. Plus it is recommended that women do the self-exam in the shower while the breasts and hands are coated with soapsuds. The reason for the soapsuds is that it acts as lubrication, and allows an easy gliding action which is supposed to make any irregularity easier to detect. I've done it this way, and have to say that the official advice is good advice. But like I say, it's not very often that I remember to do it. In fact, I'd say I remember only about once or twice a year, tops.

But anyway, my main reason for posting to this thread now is to share this article which, although it's nearly a year old, I knew nothing about until coming upon it very recently:

http://scrapetv.com/News/News%20Pages/Health/Pages/Surgeon-General-recommends-against-breast-self-examination-Scrape-TV-The-world-on-your-side.html

I'd love to hear what other members, both male and female, think about this article. Do you agree or disagree with it?

Addie,

scrapetv.com is a humour web site. Do not take the article seriously.

Hoo boy! Is my face red on this one!

I did some more searching, and have to say that it looks as if, yes, you are right, user264 - I was "had" by that article. I was totally unfamiliar with that site, and figured it was mainly a home improvement site that also offered random news items as well. Oops! ***BLUSHING BIG TIME!***

I guess I should have been a little more skeptical after reading the quote: “For years and years health officials have been encouraging women to conduct self exams, and while the intent was good, this study shows that it is having the opposite effect,” said Scrape TV Health analyst Rebecca Phelps. “We just have to hope that whoever wins the Presidential has real solution to the healthcare issue because this will likely prompt a lot more trips to the doctor. It will also be interesting to see if the rates of males getting into gynaecology increases. In my experience the type of young men who end up in school for extended periods of time don’t get to touch a lot of breasts and this gives the perfect opportunity. This could be a momentous day for breasts all over the world.”

I guess I was fooled by my own wishful thinking on the matter. I mean, not feeling bad about my not doing regular self-exams, plus the idea it might make for more males going into the gyno field. That's right up my alley. 😜

I check my breasts myself, hubby would get carried away! 😁

Mostly I do it myself, but sometimes my boyfriend or my sister examines my breasts. Yes, I examine her breasts, too, and the breasts of my other sis.

While roleplaying, I examine the breasts of our girlfriends, also.

Wow, to be a fly on the wall in your house! A bunch of bare chested women examining each others breasts. This has been a fantasy of mine since I was twelve.