Who regularly has simultaneous orgasm?

Another of my abstract thoughts/questions..

The typical porn scene ends with both (or all) participants experiencing an earth shaking orgasm at the precise same moment.

Certainly there is a natural synchronization that happens as we sense our partners approaching a sexual climax, and its absolutely wonderful when we cum together....but, how common is this in reality?

To kick off the discussion, my personal experience is that its not only kind of rare, but often not even our primary goal. I find that creating an exciting experience for my partner is much more enjoyable than "getting my rocks off." Sure there are times that I just want some quick relief and MsLog is has always been "present" in those moments, and I for her. Admittedly, her needs for a quickie are rarer than mine 😃 ...but the times we find ourselves lying on the bed totally exhausted and satisfied we have had little or no concern that we orgasm at the same time. For us, the journey is easily as much fun as the "arrival." If it happens, it happens, but like a long edging session, the end result improves with the time dedicated.

So how many of us regularly cum together?

Is it necessary for a fulfilling experience?

Do you feel less satisfied if you orgasm separately?

I usually came first from vaginal sex but was able to persevere till BA got hers. Anal, she came quickly with some manual stim.

For us we orgasm together most of the time. She loves feeling me pulse inside her which almost always sets her off on her own orgasm. For me, if I’m a little behind watching her climax most always pushes me over the edge too.

It is not necessary for a fulfilling experience, every partner is different. Sometimes we plan to finish at different times, like through oral and that can be just as satisfying.

I would say my husband and I orgasm together more than 90% of the time during vaginal intercourse with him on top or me on top. He has a very specific coital thrusting pattern as he gets close to ejaculating; increasingly fast short strokes followed by one or two very hard deep thrusts to get in as deep as he can. That’s when he ejaculates. That pattern triggers my orgasm. Basically the only time we don’t orgasm together is when he wants a slam bang thank you mam quickie. Our quickies are all most always a rear entry deal. I just bend over a chair or something or grab my ankles and rest my head on a wall to steady myself. He is only inside me for at most a minute or so before he climaxes. There is no foreplay; so I am usually a bit dry and the penetration is often a bit unpleasant. If I have time and in a location that is appropriate I will often masturbate as soon as he pulls out.

Dita

In my opinion it is very seldom, to reach a climax at the same time !! - but maybe also can happen, when both of them will be able, to go to the edge, when it is no more possible, to resist the emotion's !!