Another of my abstract thoughts/questions..
The typical porn scene ends with both (or all) participants experiencing an earth shaking orgasm at the precise same moment.
Certainly there is a natural synchronization that happens as we sense our partners approaching a sexual climax, and its absolutely wonderful when we cum together....but, how common is this in reality?
To kick off the discussion, my personal experience is that its not only kind of rare, but often not even our primary goal. I find that creating an exciting experience for my partner is much more enjoyable than "getting my rocks off." Sure there are times that I just want some quick relief and MsLog is has always been "present" in those moments, and I for her. Admittedly, her needs for a quickie are rarer than mine 😃 ...but the times we find ourselves lying on the bed totally exhausted and satisfied we have had little or no concern that we orgasm at the same time. For us, the journey is easily as much fun as the "arrival." If it happens, it happens, but like a long edging session, the end result improves with the time dedicated.
So how many of us regularly cum together?
Is it necessary for a fulfilling experience?
Do you feel less satisfied if you orgasm separately?