So what's your biggest fantasy as an owner/slave?

Pretty simple but am new to this site, and just wanted to know more about everyone

Me, personally I would love something close to TPE, I have a long variety of kinks as well and would love to control everything about my sub, hair color, bush or not bush, clothes outside her work attire, something meaningful, deep, lasting, and to shape her body and mind to love BDSM even more!

Pretty simple answer but I would love to know more about everyone

No Total Power Exchange for me. (But it's fine if everyone doing it wants to.) I like a clear delineation between "we are us, a couple, treating one another as equals" and "now I'm the boss and you will do or endure whatever sex stuff I choose for you." I write a lot of BDSM and the characters have different ways they indicate to one another that they want to slip into their role as Dom/Domme or sub.

It might be fun to *play* TPE, but (for me), not to live it. No way am I letting someone else control my finances or hair color.

Love the hair color bit @PinotNoir . Lol.

My hair is long and mostly silver. Striking enough that strangers compliment it. No masterful man's going to tell me to turn it brown again.