Ladies: Do you like it rough?

Ladies, do you prefer it when your partner is gentle or rough with you in bed?

If you prefer one or the other, do you enjoy the opposite on occasion?

Has your preference changed as you’ve aged?

Myself: I prefer my partner to be soft and gentle with me, but occasionally I really like it rough and animalistic… And I have always preferred it to be gentle, but used to enjoy the occasions of rough sex less often.

I'm a masochist and crave pain but my partner refuses to be rough. if i beg i can get a soft spanking but gentle and loving is good too

Rough, or at least vigorous. It can be romantic and gentle to start but by the time he’s fucking me I want him going hard, really pounding.

On my part no, be nice to me and we will play a long time. On the other hand, my friend likes her nipples really worked over and I oblige only because she wants me to.

While I both appreciate and enjoy gentle and passionate sex, I like it rough and when it kind of hurts.

Depends on my mood at the time. Sometimes a good hard fuck hits the spot. Making my bits and pieces a bit tender and sore afterwards.

But a gentle roll in the hay has its place to. Longer connection between us physically. An easier rise to the pinnacle for both of us.

I think I like sex on the more gentle side really but I like it a bit more vigorous when I feel like I am close to an orgasm. I think it depends on my mood too just what I want.

Rough, or at least vigorous. It can be romantic and gentle to start but by the time he’s fucking me I want him going hard, really pounding.

Truely answers - as always speaken by you - are very welcome !! - thanks for another example !!

I used to ache for something savage but I got carried away at times with some rather severe consequences with too much at stake and longer and longer to recover. However I do still like being taken roughly and relentlessly where I can feel the effects for days and am satisfied until the next time.

Depends. Starting gently and then reaching a point where the guy goes wildly.

I used to ache for something savage but I got carried away at times with some rather severe consequences with too much at stake and longer and longer to recover. However I do still like being taken roughly and relentlessly where I can feel the effects for days and am satisfied until the next time.

@Ms_Lila there is a difference between savage and rough. I will sometimes require/want/need rough, but never savage. I'm not that interested in having marks and having to recover.

I used to ache for something savage ...

@MissStress please note the emphasis above as I no longer have that desire or need or interest and have moved on from that part of my life.

@Ms_Lila there is a difference between savage and rough. I will sometimes require/want/need rough, but never savage. I'm not that interested in having marks and having to recover.

I'm sure you will keep with your preferences.

please note the emphasis above as I no longer have that desire or need or interest and have moved on from that part of my life.

I found with age healing takes longer and is not near as "comfortable" as it used to be.

I'm sure you will keep with your preferences.

As will everyone who answers this question @Ms_Lila .

I like it both and I think there's a time or mood for both, but the more common preference for me is rough. When I was 26, I started fooling around with a much older man (64) and when we decided to take things beyond boob sucking, I was expecting gentle (I was naive and presumptive lol) and he was rough and aggressive. I left with marks on my thighs from his grip. It was great. I often think about him when I'm taking care of myself.

I like soft slow sex that takes at least an hour total including foreplay before fucking, intercourse and then cuddling after. My husband often wants a quickie. Fast slam bang thank you mam. I often don’t climax with a quickie and I have to masturbate after to satisfy myself. I all enjoy very rough sex but I would not want to have rough sex every time. Anything goes except forced anal intercourse. Get very aroused from verbal abuse during rough sex. Somewhat embarrassed to admit it but I often fantasize that my husband is rapping me. I usually have multiple orgasms during rough sex.

Dita

I'm finding I like the sore vagina feeling less as I get older. I used to quite like that I could feel I'd been fingered up to 3 days afterwards. So now if I want it rough I only let her use one finger and she goes hard and fast. Otherwise she does it much more gently with 2 fingers up my vagina.

Push me against the wall. Push me into the position you want. Be rough. Grab my hips. Leave me with bruises.

But. Don’t fuck me hard and fast while you stand on the floor and I’m on the bed. It just isn’t good.