How did you get to have first roleplay exam?

I’ve always been into medfet and dreamt about roleplays and meeting new people. With this being said, other than online contact have there been in person friendship origin stories that led up to a potential medfet play or do most people traditionally talk online and eventually meetup. Or is there a medfet congregation that’s held annually or something that bridges people together easier that I am missing out on. Also I am new to this platform, I’ve heard of recon and fetlife but both seem a bit iffy on meeting new people. To be fair people love all over the place, so I might be oblivious. What other apps or websites to people use nowadays to connect?

I changed the name of this topic @medfet_furry because what you are asking was not the same thing as what the first topic title said.

I met my fist play doc on here. We chatted for a long time - via DMs on here and Skype (teams) and emails and then by phone. After getting too know each other and building trust we arranged to meet for an exam. This has worked for me with several play docs I've met over the years. I cannot comment on any other apps / services that are available as I don't use them.

Good luck with your searching.

I believe the first roleplay exams I received and given were over Google chats from some one I met on here back when I was 20

I used to be a regular visitor to many global medical fetish sites. Eventually I found a play partner on a local dating/chat site, your classic 2010s web-chat. There always is an 18+, sex-fetish-kink-themed room or rooms. I would, from time to time, just spam the room that I'm looking for a play doctor and eventually got a response from an older woman. And I somehow felt there was something different about her. I had been used to people responding, but most of them were gay men looking for sex or sexual play with medical instruments. Which I don't condemn, It's perfectly ok, but It wasn't what I was looking for. And with her it just clicked.

@Clinic_Boy I agree trying to find those exams that click and are somewhat realistic is hard, probably harder than it should be

I had been interested for a while. Met him on Fetlife and had been talking for over a year when we finally met up. It was incredible

I met my first play doc on Craigslist. He was older, in his late 50s. Surprisingly it took less than a day of chatting for me to end up naked on his exam table. It was a great exam and I go Into detail about it on once of the stories I posted.

I have a friend that allows me to use his medical office on the weekends to do full examination on couples and single females

I never got opportunity to have one in person in such small area, only online

I met my first play patient at the nearby naturist hot springs. Always a more open minded and kinky population of souls to be found up there.

I talked to my partner about it and did it with her, I examined her and she also then played the doctor and then examine me. It was very thrilling, I was so excited the whole time.

It took many years for me to admit to my therapist that I had a medfet. I was deeply ashamed and feared her reaction. To my surprise, she was supportive and encouraged me to act on it. Until that time, I had only done it as a kid as a way of exploring my own sexuality. I was fortunate to live in Boston, where I could access high-quality student medical equipment and teach myself how to perform a realistic exam (this was critical for me). A few months later, and with encouragement, I placed a prsonal ad in a local gay newspaper. It was quickly answered, and I had set up an appointment to meet Jack.

During his appointment, Jack said something that cemented Dr Nash - when being told to take his underwear off and stand up in front of him. He did so without hesitation and said these magic words:

"this feels so real."

That was probably the most important thing anyone has ever said to me.

I got really lucky in a niche situation. My first roleplay exam was with my boyfriend, and he's the only person I've done any with. We met through a community for a video game we like, of all things.

A lot of people had made advances on me in college, but I always turned them down because I couldn't be sure that they would like the same things I do. My boyfriend, before we started dating, was somewhat transparent about having at least some semblance of a medical kink going on.

A couple of years later, I'm always on top of giving him his injections and keep a box of gloves and lubricant near the bed.

Most of why I joined this forum recently was to find more people who are into and more experienced with medfet 😃 I wouldn't be surprised if you'd be able to find someone here if you spoke to other people who are seeking potential play partners. Best of luck to you!

I've had a medical fetish since I can remember. Found an ad on Craigslist. Chatted with the docmvia email.and went for an exam. Had several.from him. All were wonderful.

Dating a nursing student while in college then a medical student a few years later introduced me to medical fetish thoughts. With the nursing student I was asked to be her informal practice patient. We were sexually active so undressing was not an issue. She took vital signs, rectal temps, administered enemas, injected saline, and and inserted a catheter. The surprise was how arousing it was.

With the medical student we initially met at my apartment. Later we met at the medical school and used a practice exam room. She kept it professional as she examined me. Her goal was to become more comfortable examining male patients. I was more than willing to help. Later I discovered several of her classmates used lovers or spouses for this purpose. One night as she finished and told me to get dressed I jokingly said, “It should be obvious to you I enjoy this. When do you get the enjoy the experience?”

The way she looked at me it seemed as though I was about to get slapped. Instead, she said, “You’ll do exactly what I tell you and nothing more, OK?” I agreed. She instructed me to wash my hands then don a pair of exam gloves. After stepping behind a screen she came out in an exam gown. She talked me through a well-woman gynecologist’s visit complete with stirrups, speculum, and bimanual exam. It was quite an education.

It was almost by chance I have a close friend that is a real doctor. He was telling me he has a second office in a near by town that he uses once a month because his present office is so busy. He was saying it was a waist to be sitting empty. I asked if I could use it as I had a couple that had medical fetish and we were trying to come up with a play exam room. He said sure if we clean up after we are done. He gave me keys and showed me how all the equipment is used including proper insertion of a speculum. He also went through a full exam should be like. It’s really a great chance to enjoy a fetish that I’ve come to find out a lot of people are into. Couples are the best so many things to try and do

Long before the Internet, there was a network of guys who were into the medical scene as doctors, or patients. The doctors would place ads in gay newspapers. We all got to meet each other, usually because X knew Y, and shared contact information, or a conversation somehow got off track into doctors we had had exams with, whether play, or real.

Meh, online never nothing in person

I met two great roleplay docs through Craigslist--before the site's final days when it was less spammy and you could meet some great people through there. And I had repeat experiences with both of them. Sadly, since I've had to shift to zity, FetLife, and Recon, I haven't made any new, in-person connections.

I’ve been lucky in that word of mouth has been great. I’m always surprised at the number of couples that enjoy playing an erotic role with each other.

My first role play examination as patient was with a ZB play doc...I t was an in person exam and I was very nervous but found it very exciting. I have had several examinations from another ZB member some in person many via cam. The only female 'doctor! I have met.....she knows who she is.

My first roleplay exam was with an established sex-partner, but I don't think that's what you're asking.

At my husband's urging, we set up a roleplay exam for me with another person. He handled the arraignments with my having veto ability. I was happy for this to happen that way for multiple reasons, not the least of which is my being pretty sexually sub. Actively seeking out a fetish partner isn't me and I didn't want it bad enough to screen people I potentially knew through this site to do it. The conundrum of 'I'm not going to play with someone I haven't vetted' vs 'I don't want to convert any of my existing friendships into a sexual relationship'. Solution: Let my husband handle the details. That's kind of a model of our relationship as a whole actually.

He met Smith, the guy we eventually went with, via Fetlife. He used to be more active here than he currently is. Fetlife is his thing, this is mine. I believe he found him through one of the MedFet groups.

We chatted online and eventually via Facetime before. We established there was compatibility and set something up. I suspect it's a LOT easier for a female to find someone than it is a male, but with the female, it's finding the RIGHT person who isn't a psycho and who actually knows enough about what he's doing not to hurt you.

EDIT

FYI Smith wasn't the 'first' guy we interviewed. I rejected a few before meeting Smith.

Good luck!

@Nurse_Phillips Just curious - was Smith the inspiration for Dr Fester?

@Nurse_Phillips Just curious - was Smith the inspiration for Dr Fester?

No he shows up as a much better looking character in some of the images I made.

My girlfriend at the time saw my liked images in my Tumblr account, she asked about it and next thing I knew there was a paper exam gown in the house.