Males Having No Control During a Physical

Males Please Answer: no matter if Straight, Gay, or Bi: Have you ever had a real Physical where you strongly felt that the Doctor (whether male or female) was taking some kind of amusement in causing you to feel embarrassed, humiliated, having no control, & unusually vulnerable?

And if YES, were you aware of this as it was happening in real time, or was it in thinking about it afterwards?

Nope, never. Maybe those guys who have served in the military might have experienced this, but I think that would be highly unprofessional of a civilian doctor.

Ive never experienced it, neither I was aroused during a phisicical, Idk if it may sound weird, I love this kink, but its like if irl my brain would make me see that this is a real medical profesional so I cant get a boner, Is this something that happens to everyone?

I think a hard working doctor is interested in figuring out what's right or wrong. Nurses and doctors are taught how to alleviate or help a patient deal with embarrassment. Genital/pelvic/ breast exams are primary triggers, but male doctor/female patient always has chaperone (well they should) to help.

As for control...well they know what they need to do. If you do or don't need to be undressed that's up to the doc

I had a physical exam done once for my job that made me wonder why he was being so through. I had, had this kind of exam done close to half a dozen times before and it had never been done the way it was done that day. I have it done numerous times since and it has never been done like it was done that day. The doctor was younger and I am guessing right out of his internship, he was very enthusiastic to say the least. I don't think he was intentionally trying to humiliate or embarrass me or that he was doing anything intentionally wrong. I have thought about it since it happened and the only thing I can think of is that he was using me to practice on. It was a DOT physical and they are usually very basic, depending on the doctor you might physically get checked for a hernia although they are only required to ask about symptoms not required to perform the exam unless you have symptoms. On this day I was given a complete genital exam followed by a rectal exam according to him so he could collect a stool sample. His demeanor changed as the exam progressed, he started out very friendly and easy going and as the exam continued he became very strict and authoritative telling me what he was going to do not explaining anything just ordering me, telling me what he was going to do and then saying that if everything was good he would sign my certification for my employer not really giving me a choice in the matter. At one point during the exam he told me he realized that I wasn't old enough to need to worry about my prostate but he was going to check it anyway and then he would collect the stool sample with his finger. By this point I was kind of stunned and confused. I didn't think to question it, I didn't reply just nodded my head in agreement.

No. Never felt a doctor was intentionally trying to humiliate me sexually. A couple have been a bit full of themselves or pompous and critical, belittling me about dumb things like mispronouncing subarachnoid or the name of a drug, and/or sarcastically dismissing a concern I had. Those doctors have been the exception.

I had a woman doctor once in college that was doing a physical exam and did it very slowly and deliberately even the testicular and hernia exams were slow and when I coughed she said wait I'm not ready. Then she proceeded to examine my penis and moved my foreskin back and forth slowly a few times and then held it up and looked inside my urethra. At that point I lost control and literally started throbbing in her hand. She continued to hold it and looked it over and said no apparent lesions any discharge? I said no and she asked if I was still sexually active and I said yes and she said she would like to have me tested again for sexually transmitted diseases. She said ok you can get dressed I am going to send you to the nurse at the lab. I was embarrassed since she filled out forms while I tried to get dressed.

During my exam for military service fitness at the age of 18. I was examined by female doctor in the presence of two female secretaries in the room. From the begining, I had to be just in my underwear and barefeet. The doctor was quite authoritarian and indelicate during exam. She often pushed me with her hand, urging me to e.g. turn around, bend over and so on. At the end of the examination she had to pronounce my fitness and military category. I had some medical documents hoping to be qualified as unfit. But she ignored it and with some kind of dismissive/malicious smile she calmly listened to my arguments and then indifferently pronounced me completely fit and stamped my file. All this while I was standing seminaked in front of her desk and she was seated comfortably in her chair. Then I was finally allowed to dress. Also, she wasn't the military person, she was civilian doctor hired to examine draftees as her side job. She knew I have to do everything what she says because exam was mandatory and every draftee was obliged by law so she didn't have to take my opinions and feelings into account. She wasn't wearing scrubs or labcoat just civilian clothes. She was mature but elegant and quite attractive dressed in tight pencil skirt, high heels and wearing strong perfume. This "confident femininity" enhanced her power even more. I still wonder if it was deliberate move. If beside taking amusement from draftees humiliation and their lack of control she also took it from them ogling her. It must boost her self esteem knowing that she still turns heads of overexcited young males.

My sub has never had a real indepth physical. What he has had to go through has never been embarrassing or humiliating. His exams have been very respectful. If the hadn't we would have very quickly changed practitioners. That behavior, attitude, is unneeded.

Never

When I was 13 my mom and dad took me to see my new female pediatrician with my parents staying in the exam room and watching. When the pediatrician told me to open wide and was about to stick the tongue depressor in my mouth, I kinda laughed which caused my mom and the pediatrician to laugh too.

I didn't know why I laughed at the time but later realized it was because I kinda liked a woman being in charge and ordering me to open my mouth to stick something in it. I think the reason my mom and pediatrician laughed was probably because they thought I was cute.

Also during the hernia check my pediatrician reached her hand inside my tighty whities to grab my balls and when I turned my head to my cough I looked over at my parents sitting in the corner of the room as they looked at me with shit eating grins on their faces. So it was more my parents who were amused by my embarrassment than my pediatrician.

Also, when I had a testicular ultrasound done when I was 19, my female ultrasound technician definitely was amused by my embarrassment when my penis shriveled up. I wrote about it in detail on my blog.

@Sup17 Did she have you take your underwear off at all or only through your underwear?

@dahardy9 she told me to unbutton and unzip my pants, then she sat in a stool in front of me, put on her gloves, pulled out the elastic waistband of my tighty whities with her left hand, and then reached inside of them and grabbed my balls with her right hand. I remember the underside of my penis was resting on the back of her gloved right hand. Also, that was the only time she ever checked my genitals in all the times I saw her between ages 13-18.

I went to a strange dermatologist when I was in high school. My father took me there and was in the exam room with me. I only had a rash on my arms but after spending 20 seconds looking at them he told my dad he wanted to do a full body exam and of course my dad said "sure, go ahead". I had to strip completely naked and lie on the table, where he first examined the back side of my body then I had to flip over and he examined the front side. Had to stand after that for a testicle and hernia exam just like in a physical exam. I thought it was odd at the time.

Got a cortisone shot in my butt. I had to go back there for 5 more appointments and each one was the same.

Since I have no personal experience with those, I often wonder if the young female nurses who oversaw male school physicals and the young female teachers who chaperoned them truly enjoyed the show, or if it was all just business as usual to them after a while.

No absolutely not. No real doctor should ever make any patient feel like this

Once I had an STI, and at that moment I didn’t know what that was. I went to my primary doctor and she just said that she won’t prescribe any antibiotic and She redirected me to urologist. It was Friday afternoon, so when I went to hospital, there was no one there, so I waited a lot.

Then a male doctor came with female nurse. He asked me few questions, then I was instructed to lay on bed and drop down my pants a little. He retracted my foreskin, tried to squeeze the discharge. Then he started examining my testicles, and I felt it was longer than necessary. Nurse was observing the exam, and they were not in a hurry.

When I thought it was over and that I will get my medicine, I was instructed to get botomless. I asked why, and Doctor said he needs to check my prostate too. We had some discussion, but long story short, no medicine without DRE. So I removed everything below waist, turned on my left side and put right knee up as instructed. Whole DRE felt like eternity.

Finally I took my receipt and run away, but for me it seemed unusually long and unnecessary.

I don’t believe that I ever had a case at a doctor where I felt I was being taken advantage of

Not the doctor, but the nurse. I had a injured foot and for the check after a few days she wants to take of my jeans and socks. Socks okay, because so the doctor can compare the injured foot with the normal one but undo the jeans was ab bit embarrassing at that age and with my mom and my sister in the room, because it seems not necessary to me

With hindsight an examination I had at 21 was I think the doctor making an offer of more, but I was too niave to realise

@Yolo I would love to hear the details

I had some physicals when I was younger in which there was a little more pressure and a little more clarity to me that I had no say in the matter and that the rules were not negotiable in a way that I do not think would happen now (this was decades ago) But never, ever a situation where I felt in any way that they were taking any pleasure in embarrassing me. If anything, they just didn't pay attention to me being embarrassed or count it as an issue. I don't a doctor who behaved that way would have very many return patients.

@drmyk2 during genital examination "I think this is something we should examine in more detail" I wish now I had replied with something akin to anything you say doc, but i said nothing and that was that