Enema tastes changing, or just getting old?

Many years ago, the simple thought that I might have the privacy to get out the enema equipment and put it to use was enough to cause an erection. ...even when said erection might be inconvenient or embarrassing. Many of those situations I dealt with by fighting them off. Same old "think about baseball", "think about schoolwork", that sort of thing, but almost without exception if the privacy was available I would proceed to the enema, and the masturbation that would lead to an orgasm.

Its been a long time since I had to fight off an erection caused by enema fantasies, ...or any other reason for that matter. I'm talking about 60 years of enema experiences. So the years do catch up with all of us. Still I find that as I have racked up the enema count, I can, these days, fully enjoy an enema that does _not_ end in an orgasm. This doesn't in any way diminish my enjoyment of one that does result in a climax and ejaculation, but there are times that an enema seems complete and satisfying in its own right.

All those years ago, as a teenager I was completely focused on orgasm as the end point of anything that awakened sexual feelings. I'm just wondering if my tastes have become more refined and sophisticated ....or I am just suffering from Old Fart Syndrome. What do you think?

The older we get, just saying, our bodies and our psychological systems change and we are affected.

Of course "things change", not your tastes!! Age makes everything change..some for the better, some for the worse.... trading is sometimes not fair. Would love to have the famous erection still going hand in hand with the experience build up.... does not work that way... still it does not mean you can't enjoy a nice enema.... it does not get hard..... can play with it later, you actually have one less distraction while you are filling up...relax and make the most of what you can....

I can, these days, fully enjoy an enema that does _not_ end in an orgasm.

Welcome to the female perspective.

As we age, the male drive mellows out. I feel it too, and frankly enjoy it. You don't focus only on orgasm, there's a whole lot I used to ignore. And you see women a bit differently too. Win-win in my book.

The drawback is that our capacity declines as we age, so can't help but wonder what's it like being like this while young... So many mistakes could have been avoided 😁

Hi,

Personally, I've always kept my childlike spirit alive. Laughter lines are more important to us than worry lines. Of course, you can't completely ignore reality; one is aware that one will not get out of history alive. So let's make the best of it.

Since the end of my twenties, thanks to my lady, I've never had to think about an enema again. Her remarks, such as: "You urgently need an enema now." or: "Pffffft, pffffft", inevitably make my pants feel even tighter today.

She's very creative. We've never lost our desire for each other, quite the opposite. This has perhaps softened our feelings about getting older in some ways, or even made us ignore them. A happy situation, in any case, one we wish for everyone.

Okay, occasionally you're reminded of it, for example when a "workshop visit" is due.

Hi,

Personally, I've always kept my childlike spirit alive. Laughter lines are more important to us than worry lines. Of course, you can't completely ignore reality; one is aware that one will not get out of history alive. So let's make the best of it..

@peartree

Thanks for your thoughtful reply!

Good points, and I love the idea that your lady understands your needs/desires and enjoys making them reality. I really envy you folks that have a great rapport that extends into your kinky side ...but just slightly off the line of thought that I was inquiring about. Using your "child like spirit" concept, I feel like I have maintained that also. Nothing has changed regarding how much I enjoy my enemas. What has changed a bit is that _all_ those early enemas had to include masturbation to climax. They were unfinished without ejaculation. No matter how long a session would go on, the conclusion was always a sexual climax. These days there are times when I find the enema itself very satisfying. I appreciate the sensations of preparing, inserting, filling, and particularly watching the process via mirror or camera. ...but I don't _have_ to orgasm to feel completed. Often I will want to end with an orgasm, and I do that without giving it a second thought. Other times the enjoyment of the other aspects is entirely sufficient and generates the same type of satisfaction as the relaxation that follows a nice orgasm. Perhaps I am just rationalizing this because I'm no longer a hormone crazy teenager. Sixty years later orgasms take a little more effort and those unwanted/unexpected erections don't seem to pop up very often. That is the cost we all pay eventually for the privilege of living longer than our sexual peak years. The point is I don't feel deprived or unsatisfied if a particular enema happens to conclude without ejaculation.

Just another old fart adding his two cents……

As we age we naturally can’t keep up with the physical pace we’ve enjoyed in the past. As the body declines the mind tries to compensate. So we think more, analyze more, regret more. When I was a teenager I thought almost exclusively about the future. Now that I’m three score plus, I think more and more about the past. My body and mind know that the future is limited.

In my case (and I’m sure I’m not alone on this), I don’t just think about the past, I overthink it. So what if a good enema doesn’t always lead to an orgasm any more? I wish I could just say, “forget about what used to be and appreciate what’s happening right now”.

The past lasted for eons, the future will too. The present is a split second, hard to grasp and impossible to hold on to.

Oh well, guess I’ll just get out the bag and try once again to tackle the present as it zooms by.

@Red_bag_user So very well said! All one can do is be thankful for what you have for the present. That too will fade.

I often remind myself that a good many people didn't live to be the age I am, and that I should be grateful for waking up on this side of the grave.

I've found that my enema capacity has changed as I've aged, as well as how easily I can achieve the big ending that was once so easy. At least now I have more time to give to it than I did when I worked full time. So what if it takes two or three, and half the morning?

I have found that I have my 'liked' equipment and techniques and usually stick with them.

Since I have gotten older I still have a huge 'Enema Kink' - But since my stoke a few years ago my routine and tastes have changed...Many times my E-Sessions are devoted to pain relief - While that is 'Pleasurable' is is not the same 'Kink' of my youth...I still make time for that and enjoy it, but it is not quit the same:-)...

The kink is enduring...I still crave and enjoy a good enema.

In High school, just the sight of an enema bag, put a smile on my face. I would sneak around to see if I could locate them on drugstore shelves. There was one in Grants Pass Oregon that had a popular soda fountain with modest sandwiches. When I found their enema systems, I almost laughed out loud. Their boxes were so worn and freyed, I dared not touch it, lest the whole thing fall out on the floor and I get nabbed to pay for it.

I can certainly identify with comments previously made on the topic. I remember as a teenager I would get hard just thinking about an enema. Now I am approaching 80 and rarely get hard during my enemas but I still enjoy them. Things change.

Yes, those tastes do change. From hating enemas when growing up, to getting that first one from my wife that was the most dramatic. Then it was enjoying them as my wife and I playfully enjoyed giving to each other, to now the occasional pleasure enema. Hopefully, as I age I never return to hating an enema but who knows.

As l am also getting older I find that getting an erection during the enema is quite rare but none the less I still enjoy them for that clean calm relaxing feeling I get from them.