Hello,
Guys, honestly, what should anyone be ashamed of? Shame is a feeling, an emotion that practically everyone knows or should know. The social and cultural environment, upbringing, peer influence, peer pressure, norms set by others and even religion play an important role in this during each individual's development. In this way, a significant influence is exerted on the self-esteem of each individual, both positive and negative.
Shame shouldn't be confused with guilt. That's a completely different matter.
In another topic, people are discussing the taboo surrounding enemas. They don't talk about it, they don't want to admit that they receive enemas from their mother, whether regularly or only occasionally. Here, too, feelings of shame play a role.
Should my darling and I be ashamed because, despite our age, we still have sex like crazy, that we give each other enemas, that my lady uses strap-ons on me? When I think about how many of our friends and acquaintances sleep in separate bedrooms, we feel a sense of contentment and happiness. Our small and large sexual depravities stay within our own four walls. And if someone happens to notice the forgotten enema bag in the bathroom or guest toilet, I couldn't care less. Then they'll just have something to talk about on the way home.
It's great to be able to exchange ideas with like-minded people here. It shows that you're not alone with your kinky desires on this planet, and you actually learn something new. I'm just imagining chatting with my neighbor about our shenanigans over the garden fence... no, I'd better not. He'd build a high wall along our property line and block out my sunshine...
Take care