Ladies: pulling apart of the labia

Hi ladies,

I recently posted here photos of the woman's vulva/vagina whom I lost my virginity to. One thing I forgot to ask was how it feels for her intimate to be open and exposed like that, so I'm asking the female Zity community:

- Is it more than the feeling of vulnerability when you feel your lips part?

- I'm sure context makes a difference (sex, medical exam, etc), but how exactly?

- Do the feelings start from just opening the legs, while you may still be clothed?

Looking forward to your answers!

I have to say, @ds20e, it feels difficult for me to use words to describe how it feels… It kinda feels unique to me. But I’ll do my best.

Generally I would say that they part and close sporadically for me, and I guess it is similar to how some guys get random erections?

Is it more than the feeling of vulnerability when you feel your lips part?

I definitely would say I feel more vulnerable, especially if I’m not in a sexual setting, but I get turned on, and I feel my breasts become heavier, nipples erect and lips part. Is it more than that? Yeah, I think there’s a feeling of identifying the arousal which is… Odd to feel?

- I'm sure context makes a difference (sex, medical exam, etc), but how exactly?

When parting for using the toilet, laying down clothed and spreading my legs, for medical purposes, and for sex does change the feeling. I find when urinating I barely feel any difference from parting, and when I am not aroused and open my legs (say sitting frog legged) my lips don’t always part. But when I’m aroused, sometimes I feel them part even when my legs are closed and I am fully clothed… But also I’m not looking at myself at the time, so maybe I’m just imagining it?

- Do the feelings start from just opening the legs, while you may still be clothed?

Depends how much attention I’m paying to my own body at the time.

That's a very specific question without a really easy answer. You mention context and, at least for me, this is 100% about context.

As far as clothed. No, not really. I tend to sit with my legs open a lot if I'm at home or in a situation where I'm comfortable. I'm a sprawler. I don't usually hang around without panties on so even if I'm wearing a skirt or a nightie or even just a tee shirt, it doesn't feel like much of anything.

Next level is the above when I notice my husband is looking at me when I'm sitting like that. I suppose I feel a little more exposed but not in a bad way. I'm conscious that he's looking and am happy he is.

Next level is undressing for a new lover the first time. I don't mean spreading my pussy, I mean taking off my underwear. That's a feeling of exposure and that's always a little twingy as you're not sure if he's going to like what he sees. There's always that worry.

Next level is when your lover spreads you open. Sure it's exposed but I've got other things on my mind at that point and am WANTING to be spread open.

The most exposed is if hubby/a lover tells me to spread myself open, either for him to look or for photos. THATS exposed. THATS a vulnerable feeling.

Beautifully put ,both @Nurse_Phillips and @NurseSammy . Very precise explanations, not to mention very arousing. 😃

Nurse Phillips !! - many thanks for this comment !! - no more words are needed !!

I remember when younger and was spanked or given a enema my legs were open sometimes and since I have those kind of lips I could feel them separate at times which made things seem a lot worse and embarrassing.

I don't feel too much when clothed and I stretch or open my legs. I can feel my lips have slightly parted but it doesn't feel arousing or particularly noticeable.

If I'm nude or bottomless I'm much more aware of my lips opening and what people might be able to see.

I like how it feels when I pull my lips back but that's nothing compared to when someone else does it!

At the clinic when my vulva is examined at the end I love how it feels having the lips opened knowing she is fully clothed but not only is my slit showing she can now see my clitoris and inner lips too and it feels embarrassing but exciting.

The best is when a woman opens it usually before sex particularly the first time when she's looking at my shape for the first time. Feeling them explore and then touch or use their tongue is incredible. I felt a bit vulnerable sometimes when a few girls have said I've got one inner lip longer than the other.

I used to frequently pull my first girlfriend's lips back. I couldn't get over the novelty of being able to look down her knickers at her slit and that I was allowed to touch it and look closely. She would barely react when I did it so I'm not sure how she felt about it.

Nurse Phillips,

I can't imagine a man not liking what he sees when you take your panties off!

Nurse Phillips, I was touching my cock all the time I was reading your post. Thanks.

Thanks, ladies ...... for answering questions I never thought of asking.

I enjoy my legs open when with a man, letting him see and maybe touch too. For medical examinations it is always a good feeling when someone else touches you intimately and opens you up a little wider.

Mine doesn't naturally "part" - or maybe it does, but I feel like I would need to spread my legs unnaturally wide to have that occur. Basically, if someone wants to inspect my clit or urethral opening, they would need to manually part my labia. So there is absolutely a strong element of exposure and vulnerability when it's done. Like, "Oh, I'm hiding absolutely nothing now!"

In a clinical, medical setting - I almost always brace myself for that feeling of exposure (the chill of the room hitting my skin, the way it feels like a layer of protection is being peeled away). This carries over into the bedroom somewhat... Mostly only when I'm feeling shy or insecure about something though, or if I'm not overly enthused about engaging in the sexual activities in the first place.