The moment of penetration

Dear Ladies, sometimes when I’m having sex with a woman and we start in the missionary position, I notice that at the moment of penetration there’s a very brief facial expression — as if it’s uncomfortable or there’s a short small pain — which always immediately turns into a pleasurable expression once penetration and further movement continue. I love that moment, those seconds of transition.

My question: does any of you know that feeling which I described? If so, what exactly is the feeling in that precise moment? Could that be avoided with more foreplay e.g.?

Thanks for your open answers.

Caes

As a guy, I'm not trying to answer any of these questions. However, I know exactly what you are talking about, I've seen it many times and I'm curious and hopeful there will be some female replies. It's also highly possible that we are misinterpreting these facial expressions and it's a moment of pure bliss. Who knows?!

It’s that first stretch. A little sharpy, burny, zing that lasts a second or so and then turns into the deliciously full feeling.

I agree with @Nurse_Phillips .

It's just that initial poke, that stretch to accept. Even tho well lubricated it's still that moment.

And it isn't a problem...unless you cum too quick...then it's just a disappointment....lol

I notice that at the moment of penetration there’s a very brief facial expression — as if it’s uncomfortable or there’s a short small pain — which always immediately turns into a pleasurable expression once penetration and further movement continue.

Could that be avoided with more foreplay e.g.?

It would depend if there was foreplay to begin with. I've had times where sub seems to forget foreplay and I'm not wet enough and that look probably crosses my face. It is a pain reaction, but can be pleasurable as well.

Otherwise the look can be as @Nurse_Phillips and @Faith describe. Things are relaxed back to their normal size then they are expected to stretch to accommodate him. There has to be a feeling involved.

I’ll agree with @MissStress - especially now that I’m post menopause, if we go to penetration quickly and I’m not wet enough it can be painful w/o lube.

Yeah I agree with everybody else, it is just that feeling of being sort of prodded at my entrance and the stretching when he is going in but when he is in properly it feels wonderful. 🔥

...when he is in properly it feels wonderful.

@Amethyst yes it does!

@Nurse_Phillips menopause can suck.

I didn't really experience that before I went through menopause. Now it would be quite common if we were not using a liberal amount of Astroglide.

Thank you for your answers, that’s exactly what you can see on the faces of the women in that moment. Wonderful to understand.

And because I believe I understood that it’s usually not really a problem, I can continue to really enjoy that transition in expression.

I haven’t been with a woman in menopause yet (at least I believe it) but even for me it’s not pleasant to penetrate when it’s dry as the desert.

I guess the intensity of that initial stretching sensation might depend on size, right?

When I'm under him and he is touching right there I get that feeling of it's just about to happen and then that very first 'poke' with the head of his cock right there and that first stretching and then OH WOW! And from then on it's fantastic and I'm totally into it moment by moment.

@Dahiana You have reminded me of a woman who once said (although she was talking about anal sex) that "the pressure was intense & then suddenly he was inside & fucking me..." 😮😃