Anal-Only for 2

The anal-only lifestyle for m+f partners involves the woman training for anal orgasms, with no vaginal use. The male continues almost as before. (see

I'm suggesting a fairer approach, where the male also goes anal-only. Training can be done together, and might create an even deeper relationship.

For intercourse, each would use a dildo, and the 2 are joined by some form of connecting rod. This could be adjusted to bring the genital areas together, and of course it allows face-to face contact.

The male would have to use some form of penis-control to prevent his conventional orgasm, I think. And maybe the woman as well?

Any thoughts on this?

It makes me think of the scene in "Requiem for a Dream" in which the Jennifer Connolly character, an addict who's run out of money, engages in anal sex with another addict, both of them on the same double-ended dildo. It's not hot but depressing and scary.

While I and other women occasionally achieve orgasm from anal penetration alone, usually it also takes stimulation of the clitoris--that's why it exists, to bring sexual pleasure. I suspect that for men, penile stimulation is even more necessary for an orgasm.

To me, what you propose sounds more like a fun fantasy than anything likely to actually work. But hey, fun fantasies are fun, right?

I can't say about women, but finding a man for this kind of thing is not an ease task. Overwhelming majority of anal-only males are either deep into female domination, or just gay. And creating such heterosexual couple without heavy powerplay is... well, overall possible, I guess, but VERY hard

I doubt 'anal only' females really exists, with some limited cases where vaginal sex is not possible due to physical conditions, not counting pre genital surgery male to female transitioners, because they do not have vaginas. Obviously, there will be some claiming otherwise, but people claim all sorts of outlandish things on internet.

It makes me think of the scene in "Requiem for a Dream" in which the Jennifer Connolly character, an addict who's run out of money, engages in anal sex with another addict, both of them on the same double-ended dildo. It's not hot but depressing and scary.

@PinotNoir I think the purpose of that scene was to show descent and degradation of drug users. I can relate to how bad it can be, occasionally I am ordered to participate in 'ass to ass' with another submissive for others entertainment. It is very humiliating experience.

One time, around last year, I had been behaving badly so my boyfriend decided I would get "anal only" as punishment for a few days. This meant that every time we had sex (which we have almost daily), it would only be anally. I think it was Tuesday and he decided that it would last the whole week through, and it did. Neither did I get to stimulate myself during the sex to make the penetration less painful or so, since it would be clear that it was for his pleasure and my submission towards him only. Also, of course I wasn’t allowed to cum without asking, but that’s the way it always is for us. We have an agreement since before, that I am not allowed to orgasm without his permission. He says yes the absolute majority of times, since he likes to pleasure and please me, but sometimes it’s a no. Sometimes temporary no, because maybe he wants me to ask him more nicely, then I am usually allowed when I do so. But sometimes it’s a hard no. And if I do it anyways, I usually end up with a very strapped or caned bottom. Anyway, the "anal only punishment" made me both obedient and sore haha.

Of course there's women who orgasm from anal penetration, and there's men too.... reddit.com/r/analonlylifestyle although for men the r/prostateplay would be more appropriate...