What is your reaction to real tears after spanking?

I apologize if this is already here – surely it is but I haven't found it.

What is your reaction to real tears either for yourself or for someone that you spank?

For me, I don't have tears very often but sometimes I really need them when I'm upset or stuck and can't get loose. So that kind of spanking really helps me to let down and let go.

It's not that important to me for a partner to cry tears, but if she needs to, I'm all for it and will do anything I can to help her. That's usually just to keep spanking until she lets go. It's not about spanking harder in most cases. Or at least in my experience.

I'd love to hear what you think and if this is already covered, maybe you can let me know where it is.

Thanks

I can only speak from a female view point regarding real tears after a spanking. For me to have tears before, during and/or after a spanking, I think that I have to be feeling guilty or bad about something I had done or misbehavior of some sort that I regretted. A stern lecture for my behavior priror to a spanking is a good way to set the stage leading up to crying during or after a spanking. Crying serves as an emotional release and some way forgiveness particularly if my husband comforts me and encourages me to do better in the future. It makes me feel even more loved and closer to him . The same feeling was felt when my mother spanked me that somehow made me feel very close to her even to this day. She never spanked me in anger or frustration and she woild always hold me on her lap hugging me and kisssing me after a spanking along with encouragement to try and do better in the future. I felt immediately forgiven and the transgression that warranted a spanking was not mentioned again. Denise

I love being spanked, or pleasured, until i am sobbing, it's such a great release :'-)