Pre/post spanking exposure

I've been thinking a lot about exposing variations on bare-bottom corner time before or after a spanking. The goal wouldn't necessarily be to cause shame, but to emphasize vulnerability and submission. For example, having the spankee straddle an ottoman so that their bottom is spread, or having the spankee lie back on the bed with their legs up and spread, or in a frog leg position, while the spanker sits by and observes, perhaps while talking to the spankee about the punishment/their behavior. Does this appeal to anyone else?

Yes, Absolutely!

I've experimented with corner-time when I punished younger kids in my babysitting days - to varying success.

When I spank an adult woman, I've also tried out various exposing positions for her to be in - to varying success.

The effectiveness of both depends on the spankee themselves so it's a "play by ear" scenario in my eyes.

The idea of pre-spanking exposure is quite intriguing. The spanker is actively choosing to expose a spankee's private parts before the spanker's handiwork takes effect. The spanker get to see their subject's bare butt in it's natural color before any reddening. In my eyes that extra embarrassing for the spankee. Honestly it's the best of both worlds which is why I also do this to my spanking subjects 😊

@AzureJuniperNYC it is very humiliating for the sub and further enhances the subs feeling of vulnerability and submissiveness!

@AzureJuniperNYC very nice! What does it being "effective" for someone mean to you?

@AzureJuniperNYC very nice! What does it being "effective" for someone mean to you?

When it comes to spanking, "effectiveness" as a whole can be multi-faceted for both spanker and spankee. In my eyes as the spanker, a spanking is effective when the subject has their private parts exposed and having their bare cheeks pelted with some sort of physicality. The satisfaction of domination is what I get out of being a top/domme.

What the spankee gets out of a spanking is ultimately how they vibe with it. They could have a gleaming grin of enjoyment or a contorted grimace of pain on their face. As long as they consented, are submissive, and enjoying it in their own special way.

I've never had corner time or any variation of it, but I'd love to. In my fantasies, my Dom first tells me to bend over the table so that my breasts are resting on it and my bare bottom is properly positioned for what's to come. On the table in front of me, he places the instrument of my future discipline, and then he simply walks out of the room. I have no choice but to stare at this horrible thing that will hurt me in a moment or in 15 minutes or in... however long he decides - while my limbs tingle from the awkward position in a sense of deep humiliation and anxious anticipation of the inevitable.

After the spanking is over, it is the corner time r for what seems like an eternity while he casually chats with his friend, comfortably seated on the couch, my bright red bottom just for their show. He might ask me to bend over a little bit from time to time until my hands touch the floor - just like this, so they can have a better view of me and it's a better reminder for me of where I belong.

All of that would drive me crazy! In both a bad and a good way.

Valeria Stan !! - nice phantasie, i would say !! - maybe you will give it a try - so phantasies are allowed to come true !!