Telling your girlfriend

I have been debating for some time on telling my girlfriend that I am a DL/AB. I am always making comments like "I think baby needs his pants checked" or if she makes cum in my pants say, "Will you clean the baby?" then afterwards I will say maybe I need diapers and she'd say maybe, but that is where it has ended. So far I have gotten her to wipe, powder, and spank me. I really think she might just say, "Lets go get you diapers" one day eventually but I want to speed up the process just a little. So short of showing up diapered how can I get her to really get into the diaper thing?

I don't have a girlfriend, but when I told my boyfriend, it was nerve racking! I didn't know how he would respond, and to my great relief, he accepted it and thinks its hot! If you and your girl are really close and you have an open and loving relationship, I would tell her! My boyfriend is more than willing to work with me to satisify my fetish.

Take it slow and she will eventually come around if she has indulged up to this point.

Try just wetting the bed 1 night and say some thing like I am sorry that happend i will wear a diaper the next time

I've been facing the same dilemma. I feel completely open for something other than this. She told me early on she didn't think she could handle if I was a transvestite or something like that (she said it out of the blue), but I don't know about this.

Sometimes she speaks with a toddler voice if she has hurt herself, or cut her finger, but that's as far as I've gotten.

In the middle of the night my gf use to put her fingers in my diapers and if I was wey she would get up and change me then put my pacifier back in my mouth. We only stayed together for a year, but that was soo fun.

I've told two girlfriends that both responded positively. But only after we knew each other really weell.

Ive told my girlfriend and she accepts even though she thinks its wierd, i have tried asking her to try them with me but she just wont, the frustrating part is that she wont at least tell me why

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I don't have a girlfriend, but when I told my boyfriend, it was nerve racking! I didn't know how he would respond, and to my great relief, he accepted it and thinks its hot! If you and your girl are really close and you have an open and loving relationship, I would tell her! My boyfriend is more than willing to work with me to satisify my fetish.

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I think that guys would be more willing to accept this fetish because most guys are sexually driven where as girls do not have as much a need for sex so guys think that if they play along that they might get something out of it where as girls might just think your weird

I had three gf in my life. I never told my first one, the second one I told her and she lafed. So I broak up. I told my last one, she was verry suportive. I was told to be strait up when I felt ready. And before She found out. Girls like when youre not hidding anything like that. So that would mean your not trust worthy in thier eyes. I was embarassed, every time I told a friend. Embarrisment is only short lived. So go and tell her in a low key time, perhapss a email or text message... Call me, I have a secrite and something I am embarrised to say this... and its a personal problem that i want to be straght forward. I expct you not to hert my feelings when I explain this. or somewthing like this in a simmular way. and when she calls you ask her if she can be supportive about a medical problem i have. and if she says yes or maybe then its your call to tell her or not.

You maybe surprised at how well some people will take it. My mother found out by accident when on a visit to my home and I thought the world would end, but she just calmly discussed it with me and then told me she was cool with it....she even changes me every now and again, usually with the comment that she used to do it fourty years ago so why not now.

It was so scary telling my first gf bc she was so proper and ladylike....well the day i trusted her, i found out she was a freak in bed, and well lets just say it worked out ever since then

If you want to speed up the process, get caught in a diaper. or try what a friend did.. she took her boyfriend to a hotel room, and while he was in the bathroom, she hid a pull up in a drawer. while they were watching a movie she started looking around the room and found the diaper in the drawer.. she said i wanna put this on...her boyfriend loved it she said they had the best sex ever that night... he now even wears sometimes... she still says it was the best thing she did. and it looks to her boyfriend that they discovered them together