Diaper comfort

Many of us will agree that wearing a fresh and dry well fitting diaper is a very comfortable and secure feeling. Giving many of us a sense of safety, comfort and security. If used for medical incontinence or just for other non medical needs (not excluding those of us with psychological benefits to diaper wearing).

However, there is also a subset of us who equally enjoy extended wear in a used diaper both wet and messy in some cases. I wonder why what should be a natural instinct to escape our own wastes is wired differently in some of us who actually enjoy the extended exposure to such things.

I personally love the feeling of a freshly wet diaper and one that has been wetted many times over an extended period of time. I can say I have similar feeling about wearing a freshly messed diaper past the time when logic would say to remove, clean and change into a clean one.

I'm curious about others thoughts on the subject.

What a good question. In fact I gave this some thought already many years ago.

I still think that every individual could have a different reason for, or perspective on, this matter, but here is mine:

I have always wanted to pee and mess freely since I can remember. I do not have a pee fetish (although I do have one for squiring women), nore do I have a poo fetish. If someone does; also good! I don’t judge.

So like I sayd, I’ve always wanted to pee and mess diapers, for as long as I can remember.

This was a long and hard struggle through decades. As the years went by I more and more came to peace with it and learned to enjoy it a bit more. Less guilt to be specific.

I think the question “why” arose 10-15 years ago. And I found the first answer pretty quickly, which is: the feeling of fluids pressing up against my genitals is very nice and a diaper is always ‘there’ to be felt and the wetter it gets the more it presses. As for number two; it just feel naughty and it also has a nice sensory feeling. The smell is also a very double sided thing. On one hand it’s not that nice to smell poo, but on the other hand it’s a very clear reminder that you have a full diaper.

The second answer that I came up with fell into my lap when I met my big sister and my little was triggered in a different and much stronger way than before. Whenever sis and I are together (at home, event, con, shopping, etc.) I have a strict no toilet policy and have to use my diaper. This arrangement makes sure that my little is constantly triggered and thatis just good for my soul. It makes me calm and it soothes me.

Love,

Spike

I'm curious about others thoughts on the subject.

Having been incontinent for close to two decades, I have grown accustomed to nappy wearing. I used to have underwear around, now I don't. My underwear draw has now plastic panties as my previous underwear and pads are not that comfortable any more.

I so much enjoy the feeling of a fresh nappy as the padding is well distributed and soft.

Over the holiday break I completed testing from a diaper company that I regularly use. As I have been with this company through my health insurance they have approached me every so often to test for them. I have been in meetings rooms displaying my nappy.

One of the tests was a 36 hour pull-up wear. At eight in the evening I would put on this pull-up and leave it on for 36 hours. The new design was to check the comfort and walking ability of a severely soiled nappy. The only exception for to to take it off and put it back on is when I needed to deficate because I am not going to hold that for 36 hours.

The second night I slept in the "sick room" which is basically the guest room and the bed although comfortable has very thick protection. This is the first time I had to start sleep with a very much filled nappy and it will have to take another night's wetting.

Usually the nappy starts to get clumpy as the padding breaks down but there were far less clumps. This made walking much better than the "nappy waddle". I could actually sleep with that wet nappy as it was reasonably good. I woke up the next morning and the nappy held everything to my amazement. There was no stale urine smell and the test could work without plastic panties as the held.

I had to deliver back all the soiled nappies for them to properly dispose of as they were prototypes and the competition cannot search my bins etc.

A little heads up is that we have suggested a small "invisible print" on the nappy of blocks, teddy bears, hearts and stars that can be seen when a ultraviolet light is shown. The idea is being seriously considered to bring a little fun as I have said to them there are times I personally have a "baby stage" where I would wear one of those ABDL nappies from Rearz and some subtle print could be a little helpful. They know a considerable about of their products are being sold to the ABDL. To them it is profits.

I wear disposable diapers 24/7 for urinary incontinence which is a medical need. I also enjoy wearing diapers not as a medical need but as a DL.

I use Northshore Magamax disposable diapers and a large booster pad which are high capacity disposable diapers for my active lifestyle. I have a routine that's basically the same everyday. Diaper changes and shower at 6 am and pm.

I'm getting 12 hours of protection with a booster pad per change, that means I'm wearing a diaper that is constantly getting wetter every minute. After 12 hours of wearing wet heavy diaper, I want changed regardless.

Anything over 12 hours may lead to leaks or skin health conditions, yes diaper rash. For the very humid hot days of summer it's changing 3 times a day. I have no desire to extend wearing time past 12 hours.

Messing diapers isn't my thing, I've had messing accidents. I get changed as soon as possible, I absolutely have no desire to wear a messy diaper period. I would call wearing the same diaper for 12 hours is extend wearing.