Not being able to get erection during play examination

I have been interested in medical examination since I was younger

It started when I was younger getting a examination and found it excited me.

So I have always wanted to experience a medical examination with a play Doctor but did not know where to find one until I find this site .

I Found a play Doctor near me and arrange and meeting. I was so excited and used to get a erection thinking about the medical examination.

On the day of the meeting I was so excited and nervous.

The Doctor was so good and professional it felt like I was at Doctors surgery

He was doing all the medical procedures that I wanted but I could not get a erection, I think I was over welm by the experience as I was so excited by it .

But I could see he was not happy due to my lack of my erection , which made it worse, eventually I did get a erection then he wanted a sperm sample with his help I manged to come but disappointed by the small load I produced as normal I would have a big load. I was so disappointed by lack of erection and I know he was as well.

Since then I have tried to arrange another meeting with him again but he refused to answer my messages.

Not sure what to next as I enjoyed it so much

Did he not try using a penis pump or doing a prostate massage. It usually works when i perform an examination and the patient is flacid.

Prostate massage is amazing!

It's not unusual to not get or keep an erection during an exam, especially your first. As excited as we get thinking about it, we subconsciously are trying not to get hard with our real doctor. I know I was always worried about springing a boner with my GP. That and the over excitement probably did it for you this time. If only you were closer I'd show you that you can in person. All it takes is a bit of patience and a deft hand. Don't give up!

Well my sense is that he was not the role player for you. He seemed like he didn't know how to best respond and if you felt ashamed then this was not good. Responding with arousal is not automatic and depending on your level of anxiety, it could have been nearly impossible. To own a sense of defectiveness, especially if it was conveyed by this other person, is the worst thing to do. Be patient and perhaps open to someone with greater experience and empathy. For me the setting as well as the expectations being followed will make a huge difference. Having a stranger get you hard enough and last long enough to ejaculate requires both skill and sensitivity. For some reason it seems that this individual was likely lacking. Good luck. Be kinder to yourself!