LADIES what percentage of men have given you oral stimulation?

I am curious what percentage of the men women have had sex with have given them oral sex.

All of them have. 100 %

Maybe 75%. Some who did it weren’t good at it or didn’t do it all that often (my ex husband for one) and some who didn’t do it didn’t get a chance to try again. Honestly I’ve only known 2 men who I would rate as REALLY good at it: my current husband and my first boyfriend. The rest ranged from bad to adequate.

I’ve only had one partner who wouldn’t go down on me. I’m not really sure why (and I’m sure I never asked him why - I vastly preferred fucking him regardless). I also never really cared for it and the couple of longterm sexual partners I’ve had were terrible at it. Only in the past year (well, 3-4 months actually, LOL) have I actually received oral that I would want to receive again.

I've been with 3 guys total, only 1 has gone down on me so 33%.

With other women maybe close to 75%.

Sadly, none back then when I was younger and first into sex !!

My testimony is 3 out of 4 who gave me oral sex

Maybe 75%. Some who did it weren’t good at it or didn’t do it all that often (my ex husband for one) and some who didn’t do it didn’t get a chance to try again. Honestly I’ve only known 2 men who I would rate as REALLY good at it: my current husband and my first boyfriend. The rest ranged from bad to adequate.

Dear Nurse !! - as almost, a remarkable answer for this question !! - short statement, but also spoken by an experienced woman, who has nothing missed in her sexlife !! - please allow me a question, have you in these bygone times ever spoken with your " ex - partner's ", to discuss what they have misunderstood about this " special kind " pleasing a woman ?? - i would think, most of us - speaking of men - would be able and also willing, to learn about it !! - and there is another point, that was often talked about, " oral stimulation " given between two women will be almost better, because a woman know' s " the special tecnic " and also the part's of the female body, where it has to be done !!- I don't know, if it is really true, or only legendary ??

Hopefully my word' s make sense ???

@4711koeln no, I’ve never talked to them after. If I’ve broken up with them, there’s a reason for it. The only one who is still in my life in any meaningful way is my ex-husband and that’s because we share children and grandchildren. I’m not going to discuss sex with him.

How to be good at it? Pay attention to her and how she’s reacting to what you’re doing. Talk to her. Ask her what she likes and what felt good. Start/Stop/Continue. What do you want me to start doing? What should I stop doing, and what am I doing that you like and I should continue.

It’s amazing what communication can do. Every woman is different, what I personally like may be ‘eh’ for someone else. I like really light tongue flicks on my clit. My girlfriend finds that annoying if I do it to her. We’re unique.

@4711koeln no, I’ve never talked to them after. If I’ve broken up with them, there’s a reason for it. The only one who is still in my life in any meaningful way is my ex-husband and that’s because we share children and grandchildren. I’m not going to discuss sex with him.

How to be good at it? Pay attention to her and how she’s reacting to what you’re doing. Talk to her. Ask her what she likes and what felt good. Start/Stop/Continue. What do you want me to start doing? What should I stop doing, and what am I doing that you like and I should continue.

It’s amazing what communication can do. Every woman is different, what I personally like may be ‘eh’ for someone else. I like really light tongue flicks on my clit. My girlfriend finds that annoying if I do it to her. We’re unique.

Many thanks for your answer !! - all your words are very intelligible, but mostly i like the way by talking to your ex husband ( and so the father of your both children ) !! - you are a very nice person, and i was happy and also very thankful, that you äre willing to talk with me and answer my question's !!

Kindly regards from germany and all the best wishes to you and your family member's !!

I’ve never worked out the percentage, because honestly it’s only ever been a select few. I let a man go down on me only when he’s earned that kind of closeness, and that’s exactly why it always feels so intense. The rarity is part of the pleasure.

I have had sex with ten men as of now and of those four were mainly just one off and didn't involve really anything more than just a one and done type encounter. My other men past and present have all given me oral sex and I've enjoyed it but a couple of them were not that into it that much but it was nice anyway. I have two now, my husband @TedStarr and another who are great with taking their time and listening and observing while they go down on me and it's really good with them.

My husband and I are in it for the long term and he's my go to for oral sex for the most part and we have been into each other ever since college.

I will say maybe half of them and then they had no idea of how to go about pleasing a woman.

When you find one who knows exactly what he is doing buy him a good pair of knee pads and learn when to grab those ears.

Dear Nurse !! - as almost, a remarkable answer for this question !! - short statement, but also spoken by an experienced woman, who has nothing missed in her sexlife !! - please allow me a question, have you in these bygone times ever spoken with your " ex - partner's ", to discuss what they have misunderstood about this " special kind " pleasing a woman ?? - i would think, most of us - speaking of men - would be able and also willing, to learn about it !! - and there is another point, that was often talked about, " oral stimulation " given between two women will be almost better, because a woman know' s " the special tecnic " and also the part's of the female body, where it has to be done !!- I don't know, if it is really true, or only legendary ??

Hopefully my word' s make sense ???

@4711koeln

I don't think it makes all that much difference in the long run if its a man or a woman doing the deed as long as they are a good communicator and can read her body language and also have a genuine desire to go down on her. I think it probably helps in the beginning being a woman if you're talking about people who are just starting out.

Although I've only ever had oral from one guy, at the beginning he was good and he has only gotten better since. Its my favourite kind of sex so I count myself as being very lucky that he's so into it. There is something special about giving it and getting it from a girl though and especially when its her first time. Those memories are my fantasy of choice when I'm on my own.

100 percent...I've only had one sex partner so not a good point of reference. Oral isn't his favorite so it doesn't happen very often.

Although I've only ever had oral from one guy, at the beginning he was good and he has only gotten better since. Its my favourite kind of sex so I count myself as being very lucky that he's so into it. There is something special about giving it and getting it from a girl though and especially when its her first time. Those memories are my fantasy of choice when I'm on my own.

Many thank's for this comment !! - all the best wishes for you and your partner !!

Many thank's for this comment !! - all the best wishes for you and your partner !!

@4711koeln

Thanks. He's a great guy, everything a girl could want in a partner. Although most of my previous experiences have been with women I never really managed to get my head around the idea of a long term relationship with a woman. But I do sometimes find myself missing the sex I used to have, its very different to be with another woman.

@4711koeln

Thanks. He's a great guy, everything a girl could want in a partner. Although most of my previous experiences have been with women I never really managed to get my head around the idea of a long term relationship with a woman. But I do sometimes find myself missing the sex I used to have, its very different to be with another woman.

- thank you " for the flower's " !! - and enjoy your actual sex - life with all the advantages, that was given !!

Again, all the best wishes for you both !!