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My wife doesn't offer to peg me because it's not top of mind for her, but yes, whenever I ask her to peg me, she is happy to oblige, even though she derives no pleasure from it, other than knowing she is pleasuring me.
How often, do I ask, you ask? Probably about once a month. It feels like a lot to set up and hook up and rig everything so she can perform her part.
From reading some of the posts on this thread, I know I am very lucky that my wife happily pegs me. I'm sorry that Zity members don't always get their kinks satisfied. I can identify with that too.
For example, I do wish my wife would let me spank her, just my bare hand on her bare bottom, even ever so lightly, but she is averse to pain of any kind, but I don't complain because she happily paddles my bum whenever I request it and quite often she offers it with a smile. "I think it's time for a spanking, mister" or "How would you like a spanking, dear?" or "Would you like me to paddle your bum?" or "Could you use a little smack bum?"
Sure, I wish she shared my love for enemas, but she has tried it once about 40 years ago and about 10 times over a two-week period just a few years ago. She gave it good try. I gave her the enemas with the utmost care and consideration, applying everything I had learned on Zity. The enemas did not help with her bowels they way she had hoped and they didn't do anything for her sexually, but 10 times in a fortnight is a pretty good effort to see if it would do anything for her. So, enemas are not her thing.
And ihow many enemas has she given me . . . let's see here . . . grab the calendar and the calculator . . . total everything up . . . and wow! . . . So she's given me a grand total of one enema in 45 years. Again, not her thing. But she's very happy that I love enemas . . . and that I don't push them on her.
So, sure, I wish my wife had a few more kinks of her own or shared a few more of mine, but I really have no complaints. She pegs me whenever I want, just not in the YMCA swimming pool. She spanks me regularly and as much as I want. And when it comes to anal play with my heinie, she is happy to insert fingers, hands, sex toys, dildos, butt plugs, anal toys, non-anal toys, and other things that probably have no business being in my bottom.
So, I feel truly blessed and lucky indeed.
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