Men does your lady peg you?

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My wife doesn't offer to peg me because it's not top of mind for her, but yes, whenever I ask her to peg me, she is happy to oblige, even though she derives no pleasure from it, other than knowing she is pleasuring me.

How often, do I ask, you ask? Probably about once a month. It feels like a lot to set up and hook up and rig everything so she can perform her part.

From reading some of the posts on this thread, I know I am very lucky that my wife happily pegs me. I'm sorry that Zity members don't always get their kinks satisfied. I can identify with that too.

For example, I do wish my wife would let me spank her, just my bare hand on her bare bottom, even ever so lightly, but she is averse to pain of any kind, but I don't complain because she happily paddles my bum whenever I request it and quite often she offers it with a smile. "I think it's time for a spanking, mister" or "How would you like a spanking, dear?" or "Would you like me to paddle your bum?" or "Could you use a little smack bum?"

Sure, I wish she shared my love for enemas, but she has tried it once about 40 years ago and about 10 times over a two-week period just a few years ago. She gave it good try. I gave her the enemas with the utmost care and consideration, applying everything I had learned on Zity. The enemas did not help with her bowels they way she had hoped and they didn't do anything for her sexually, but 10 times in a fortnight is a pretty good effort to see if it would do anything for her. So, enemas are not her thing.

And ihow many enemas has she given me . . . let's see here . . . grab the calendar and the calculator . . . total everything up . . . and wow! . . . So she's given me a grand total of one enema in 45 years. Again, not her thing. But she's very happy that I love enemas . . . and that I don't push them on her.

So, sure, I wish my wife had a few more kinks of her own or shared a few more of mine, but I really have no complaints. She pegs me whenever I want, just not in the YMCA swimming pool. She spanks me regularly and as much as I want. And when it comes to anal play with my heinie, she is happy to insert fingers, hands, sex toys, dildos, butt plugs, anal toys, non-anal toys, and other things that probably have no business being in my bottom.

So, I feel truly blessed and lucky indeed.

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Not at all. sure wish she would! You guys that do get pegged consider yourselves very lucky!

Interesting that @alan20cm says “This misconception still exists amongst both men & women that any man wanting some anal play or a strapon fucking must somehow be gay.”

Firstly, I don’t think “gay” or “not gay” is binary. Surely it’s a spectrum.

Many women, me included, have experimented with other women, especially when we were younger. Isn’t that the same for men?

Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, who cares?

If you both enjoy it then why not go for it?

Very true words, simply spoken, i would say !! - many thanks for that !!

Not, unfortunatelly.

I could only hope

Clear answer: Yes

and she does it perfectly, and with dedication.