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Does my lady peg me? Let me count the ways.
She pegs me to the depth and breadth and height
The dildo can reach, when feeling out of sight.
. . . . . (variation on a theme from Sonnet 43 by Elizabeth Barrett Browning)
But I digress . . .
Does my lady peg me?
Yes. Anytime I ask my wife to peg me, she is happy to oblige—as long as I ask nicely and we are not in a public hotel swimming pool. By the way, I always ask nicely and, in case you are wondering about frequency, I probably ask about once a month.
We struggled to find a harness that was comfortable for my wife. The first harness was made of plastic and the second one was stiff leather. Both were very uncomfortable because the edges cut into her hips and thighs. The third time was a charm because what we bought was not a harness, but instead, heavy-duty, thick nylon panties that are sturdy enough to hold the dildo in place, but soft enough on the skin of her hips and thighs. It's still not totally, perfectly, ideally comfortable, but it's way better than the first two harnesses, and the panties certainly get the job done.
In case you are concerned about my wellbeing, I was completely comfortable with all three dildo holders, but then, I was on the receiving end of the dildo and not on the wearing end of the dildo holder.
Of course, the pegging is mostly for my pleasure. Scratch that. The pegging is ENTIRELY, COMPLETELY, FULLY, AND 100 PERCENT for my pleasure. And although my awesome wife derives no physical fulfillment from pegging me, emotionally she is fulfilled knowing she is pleasuring me. She is always happy to help with my many kinks, most of which are related to anal play.
And just as my wife is happy to pleasure me, I am always happy to pleasure her, even when it’s not doing much for me. There are a few things that we do that are entirely for her pleasure and I am truly delighted and fully fulfilled knowing I am totally pleasuring her.
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