Where are all the Female for Female dominants????

I have been looking for a female dominant for many years. I have noticed a big rapid decline of female dominants in general and not sure why this is . I have noticed the female dominants I see are either requesting paid services, only dominate males , or are no where near into my kinks which I understand could be “taboo.”

Hopefully some time soon , she will come along… hopefully be local… I sure hope.

I was friends with my domme for almost 40 years. She would come help me do things. One day I was being quite ornery and a bit obnoxious. She said to me if I were her child she would spank me soundly. I said I dare you. Never realized she'd paddle me on my bare butt. After that it happened whenever I got out of line. The temperature taking rectally happened when I lied and said please don't paddle me, I feel sick. She left, went to her house and brought back a rectal thermometer. She pulled my pants and underwear off and told me to lay down on my tummy. She had exam gloves and put a big glob of KY on her index finger an lubed my anus. She slid the thermometer in and held on so I would not push it out. I really lucked out!

I was friends with my domme for almost 40 years. She would come help me do things. One day I was being quite ornery and a bit obnoxious. She said to me if I were her child she would spank me soundly. I said I dare you. Never realized she'd paddle me on my bare butt.

How old were you when thar happened? Start of a long relationship!

I see a number of dommes in my local BDSM community and a lot of them are bi or lesbian.

Its true that a lot of them offer their services professionally, but they are also just people in the lifestyle like anyone else, forming relationships like anyone else.

Get involved in your local scene and start forming human connections, you will get there.

How old were you when thar happened? Start of a long relationship!

I was 60 and she was 76.

I was 60 and she was 76.

We first met when I was 21.

Valhalla,

I hope you find your ideal partner....and I must ask if you are a Wagner fan (because of your name.)

John