Are you worried about dying and your enema equipment being found?

A question for all you e-freaks out there….

Are any of you worried about dying and leaving your enema (or any other kinky) paraphernalia for a loved one to find when going through your effects?

In my case it is a concern. Fortunately my wife is also into the wet arts and if one of us goes the other will dispose of the toy box. If we both buy it at the same time somebody is in for an embarrassing discovery.

This sounds trivial but it must be a serious concern for many of us.

For me this is not a concern.

Not morbid, just importantly human. Sounds like you’ve already addressed or solved your personal family issue concerning enemas. Personally, I’m nearly 74 and very minimally concerned, but good topic to bring up here.

Eric🍑💦👍🏻

I'm 77 and living alone..........as for when I leave, who gives a rats ass as to what they think! I'm more concerned about what will happen to my collection of music (over 300,000 songs on my server) about 20,000 45s, 12" singles, albums and sound equipment!

I've been working on a will, so many things to share.

Hmm...how do these questions even arise in your head?

My husband knows I like my enemas, so if I go first it is not a problem for him. I actually have enema related things in two locations. Under the sink in my bathroom, I have a typical open top fountain syringe, a bulb syringe, castile soap, and tube of lube. Things generally associated with someone who needs an enema for occasional constipation and should not cause concern for anyone finding it. However, in a more secluded place, I have my special "fun enema" things such as my colon tube, specialty enema nozzles, vibrating butt plug, and several lubes and soaps. This would raise eyebrows if my daughters or someone else found it them.

@Cheryl77177 I like to sound of your "fun enema" stuff 😃Over four years ago I had a brush with bowel cancer, polyp removed which subsequengtly turned out to be malignant. Years & lots of colonoscopies later all is thankfully OK but at the time there was something of a definite cloud over my future. My wife is aware of my various kinks but takes no interest however I didn't want my son having to clear out my enema stuff, a few items of latex clothing & butt plugs etc. I kept only a few items. Wonder if I did the right thing?

Smell the roses now you won’t when their on your coffin whoever finds your enema equipment when your gone doesn’t really matter your no longer here.

Not enema equipment as I don't have any, but my sex toy collection and the contents of my hard drive, YES. Hubby has strict orders on what to do with both should I pass. If we both croak at the same time, our kids are gonna be horrified.

Not enema equipment as I don't have any, but my sex toy collection and the contents of my hard drive, YES. Hubby has strict orders on what to do with both should I pass. If we both croak at the same time, our kids are gonna be horrified.

And for all that you know ........ they might actually be impressed.

File that under ‘id rather not know’

I’ve thought about my rectal thermometers, jars of Vaseline, pictures of women’s assholes, with and without toys in them, being discovered on my death. I’m sure that they will be discarded. Maybe they’ll be the topic of conversation, long after I’m gone. Who cares?

Looking at family history, I'm quite sure my wife will out live me. If I know that I'm dieing, and have some warning, I'll get rid of the more controversial equipment and only keep the normal necessities. If I were to pass unexpectedly, so be it. I'm sure my wife has come across most of my things while cleaning. I don't go overboard hiding things. Just keep them out of sight. Anyone who thinks they are keeping a complete secret from your wife or when you were young, your mother. Is totally deranged. They may not bring anything up, but they know.

My enema stuff is hanging out in the open for anyone one to see. Sometimes it is in with the toilet, other times it is hanging on the wall in the shower. Sex toys are left here and there . But pugs were I pull them out. Fucking machine screwed to my bedroom floor, ready for action, visible from the hall as you walk past. Clear plastic box of choice dildoes and vibes beside it. Vibes on a charging station table. glass cabinet for my strap-on harnesses and pretty bondage outfits. Nipple and belly button jewellery, an assortment of nipple clamps with chains and weights, and butt plugs. I like showing them off. Plastic box of lubes, Toy cleaner on the sink counter. Nothing I am ashamed of using or owning.

So no, if I were to drop dead, there would probably be a mass of girls picking through my stuff for goodies. I don't have a problem with it.

Sadly... yes...

I've thought about it.... non problems for enema stuff, my family and friends know about it, others may think of an old man quirks...planning to check out as old as possible.... toys and other "materials" I will probably give it away when they'll become kind of useless...I'm more concerned about my digital files, and other stuff in computer and phones or stored away....guess that if I have a fair notice I'll probably get rid of most of that....or leave a password to a close friend to do it for me at the right time.... I think there are a few things daughters may not want to know about....

Found by whom? Kids?

Not enema equipment as I don't have any, but my sex toy collection and the contents of my hard drive, YES. Hubby has strict orders on what to do with both should I pass. If we both croak at the same time, our kids are gonna be horrified.

@Nurse_Phillips Maybe not, they might use them. LMAO🤣🤣🤣

@Nurse_Phillips Maybe not, they might use them. LMAO🤣🤣🤣

File THAT under something I’d rather not contemplate 🤣

I have to confess I have an extensive collection of toys and kinky equipment . If I pass with said collection not disposed of beforehand, I have a friend who has the keys to my apartment and the location of the keys to my locked valises, etc . Plus written directions and to get rid of what she doesn't want to keep for herself. 😃

My answer to both is "no" and 'no." Everyone in my family who is close to me already knows that I love enemas, go to enema fests, etc. My love of enemas is one of the most poorly kept secrets of my personal life. So when I pass on, I think they will have a great time going through it, and most likely commenting with phrases like, "I knew he was into enemas, but never had any idea that he was THAT into it." I have lots of stuff! 😃

I am sure that when I pass on, there will be people that will go thru my possessions of what I owned. Someone will open my lingerie drawer and be a bit shocked, get to my toy drawer OMG, then come across the many pictures of me in various poses. With that I can only hope they say that ole grandma did have a decent bod on her and that Grandpa and her sure must have had a good time together.

I qualify for the "other kinky paraphernalia". Namely clergy outfits, several pairs of handcuffs, and most especially, the massive collection of jockstraps.

The dumb thing to do would be to throw them, in the trash. The smart thing to do would be to sell them on ebay or wherever. If my death is a slower one, I may allow a friend to "inherit" things, and successfully pass things along to someone who would be best to have it after I pass.

Yeah, I know I’m answering my own question here but bear with me…..

I’m an avid reader of mysteries and one of my favorite authors from the past is Cornell Woolrich, not a very well known names these days. Woolrich lived from 1903 until 1968, wrote dozens of novels and hundreds of short stories using many pseudonyms. Many movies are based on his works, most notably Hitchcock’s “Rear Window”.

Woolrich was very gay before the word began to be applied to homosexuals. He jealously guarded that aspect of his life which was more-or-less a requirement for success in his era. Fairly recently one of his movies was introduced on TCM by Eddie Muller (the Czar of Noir). Eddie stated that Woolrich was “deeply in the closet” regarding his sexuality. This phrase put a bug in my head. Is it fair to announce to the world something that was so secret and personal to someone now deceased? Eddie was not spilling the beans about Woolrich. His sexuality was known or at least assumed even during his lifetime.

This may start making sense now. I personally am “deeply in the closet” about my enema interest as I suspect is also true of many of my friends here on Ziti. The thought of someone, even if it turns out to be a stranger, discovering my affinity (even after my death) I would consider a violation of my privacy. My daughter, sister, etc. finding my stash amuses me unless it turned out to be traumatic for them.

Does privacy extend to infinity?

I used to spank, cane and give enemas to an oidish local man who was in poor health, he aqsked i would get rid of a lot of his stuff, which i did .

No. Let them think and guess when they find my medfet equipment arsenal. 😃

Après moi le déluge. Don’t worry too much. When you are gone you are gone

Not especially. “They” won’t find much — two fountain syringes, a combination bag that doubles as a hot water bottle, two rectal tubes, a bulb syringe, a plunger syringe attached to a rubber tube for administering probiotics rectally, castile soaps and soap solutions, a jar of Vaseline, various lubricants — but no toys of note, darn! Pretty boring, guys!

@Vicki V Does not sound boring to me!

This after I am dead stuff is giving me a case of the froonies. Not thinking about it righttttt NOW! Drat! still thinking about it.

I need pie.