Milking The Prostate to get maximum pleasure from hitting the P Zone

I am struggling to do this let alone find my P Zone - Have tried feeling Everywhere from my balls to my anus - tried on all fours - standing up - hand from behind - hand in front I ust can not find that little Pleasure zone to get the kind of Pleasure they say it provides if you find it and massage it....

To massage the prostate you need to insert your finger in your rectum and press upward (toward your belly). You can put some pressure on it externally by pressing on your perinium, but not to the extent if done internally. You might want to try a prostate toy, lots to choose from and you leverage them to press again the peostate if you’re having trouble contortioning your body to reach it

Better yet, find a partner to do it!

Massaging your prostate with your fingers is possible in principle, but rather difficult. You need to be quite flexible. It's better if someone else does it.

Or – if you want to do it yourself, use a tool. There's a wide selection available in stores.

This is a topic that my lovely and I talk about but haven’t performed yet, she does massage the external area of the prostate when I am reaching a climax and it really intensifies the moment, I am really looking forward to internal prostate massage during climax!’

From what I've been told, and have read online, lie on your right side and curl your knees up to your chest. Reach your left hand behind you and insert your left thumb as far as you can (fatty pad towards the front of your body, thumbnail towards your back), and push/massage towards your belly button.

That is the best position and technique that I've found. However, I have still yet to get much pressure or pleasure from it. I don't know if my prostate just isn't as sensitive, or if I'm just not hitting it correctly. I have never felt the pressure, pleasure, tingles, or 'got to pee' sensation from anything prostate related, whether playtime or during prostate exam. Maybe I'm just not wired that way.

@BenDover I think your last sentence is the clarification. When using an Aneros prostate toy the purpose is to sensitize the area and with that ‘rewire’ the nerves to better communicate and therefore feel/notice the pleasurable feeling. I haven’t fully mastered it yet. For me direct intense stimulation works but the subtle way that could lead to a p-orgasm not yet. Only small pleasurable waves but not the orgasmic state.