How to cum during vanilla sex?

Hi! My current partner is very vanilla and so far we're only been having sex where I top because I'm not really aroused without kink and she is not into kink at all. But she's a switch and she really wants to get me to finish so I was wondering what are some ways that would make it easier to cum during vanilla sex. Are there any supplements or creams that can help and has anyone else had a similar situation? We're tried toys and vibrators but it's still difficult.

Welcome to Zity @pepperinaa . Have you two tried cunnilingus? Maybe a silly question. I have often found with partners who have difficulty coming, a lot of oral attention often works.

How is your communication? Do you tell each other what works for you(besides kink)? How long have you two been together?

Maybe some of the lesbian, or bi ladies on here may have some better insight.

Hope you can work things out.

Communication is essential. Tell her your needs, listen to her concerns and limits. Try some “mild” kink and see if you can build on it. Don’t push too hard or too fast. We found some kink worked for us, others didn’t. Be willing to compromise, but don’t give it up.

I doubt supplements and creams wouldn't help as much as honest discussion about your and her needs.